chaos

Caring for each other's total wellbeing, in and out of bed, and never missing an opportunity of showing it, is probably the best thing you can do for one another. Good job you two.

CantSitStill

Well I have found that the sex actually comes when you bond emotionally with your spouse..it's all the things you do for eachother, the closeness brings on a better sex life. We make time for eachother emotionally, not just going through the day to day routines of just being here but communicating and appreciating eachother instead of just taking eachother for granted.
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artlady

Just chiming in: my H and I first had sex less than six hours after we got back together, and it was mind-blowing; the best sex of our lives. We were like bunnies for the first few months. Yay for hysterical bonding!

But seriously, we'd just missed each other so much (hadn't seen each other in six weeks) that we couldn't keep our hands off each other. Fifteen months later, the sex is still great. Even though the separation was incredibly traumatic, it made us appreciate and love each other SO much more.