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post #1 of 18 (permalink) Old 03-08-2012, 01:50 PM Thread Starter
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Me and my wife are in our sixth week of R after her four month EA and we are doing it like rabbits just about every day.The sex is mindblowing and excellent,is this normal? We're both loving it.
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it's called hysterical bonding and it's normal and probably even beneficial

I went thru the same phase

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Yea. When Hubs moved out, the sex was even MORE amazing than usual. It was 3 times a day and just insanely passionate.

We're back to normal now Just once a day and passionate. haha...it's good.


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They want vodka and Taco Bell.
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yes

it's called hysterical bonding and it's normal and probably even beneficial

I went thru the same phase
Same here

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Aaah......make up sex.....
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So true, our sex life has definately increased..almost daily and so much more passionate..too embarassed to say how often it used to be..thought it was my libito but gee now I love it
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oops lol didn't see who started this post lol
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This is one of the few definite perks to an otherwise crappy situation. My wife and I went through the same thing. We had sex the first time three days after D Day - completely and totally mind blowing - by far the closest emotional connection I've ever felt.

Enjoy - both of you!!!
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She got it Bandit!
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This is one of the few definite perks to an otherwise crappy situation. My wife and I went through the same thing. We had sex the first time three days after D Day - completely and totally mind blowing - by far the closest emotional connection I've ever felt.

Enjoy - both of you!!!
Only 3 days?

Our 'make up' sex was about 5 months. lol.


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Only 3 days?

Our 'make up' sex was about 5 months. lol.
What can I say - we've always been eager and we've always had great make up sex!!!

In reality I suspect it was so quick for us because there was never really any question of if we would stay together or not.
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Should I wish my spouse have an EA (not PA)????? What I'd do to have her want to Hysterical Bond with me!!!!! We get along, do fight some, but can't remember the last time we've even had makeup sex.......
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