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I know alot changes after marriage, she does alot of things and they start to taper off after a while. Just curious to see some other track records besides my own.
Tell me fellows, when was the last time you got a bj? I dont mean a few seconds of one as foreplay. Start to finish
I got one yesterday. And a couple brief times during sex. She even did the ATM. I find it much easier when I don't ask. I just get her hot and bothered, then tell her to do it, or bring her face down there.
Mine was the opposite. We were together for several years before I got one from her. It was the first time she had ever given one, and she decided to swallow (we were in a car). She made it through, but didn't try again for several years. She started again as foreplay, and has a couple times finished me by hand when I got close from the BJ. I would love another full meal deal, but am ok with just a helping hand to get over the finish line. As foreplay, she does it allot- pretty much every time, and frequently again a few hours later to get me going for a round two or three.
I think one from start to finish would be great, she has improved her technique so much, they are incredible now, but I really prefer them as warm up, then finishing inside. I don't know if other guys are like me, but when I finish, I just want to be as deep in as possible, no moving, and that's hard to do without causing her to gag. Posted via Mobile Device
I know alot changes after marriage, she does alot of things and they start to taper off after a while. Just curious to see some other track records besides my own.
Tell me fellows, when was the last time you got a bj? I dont mean a few seconds of one as foreplay. Start to finish
I last had one last week. It was good but we're still working on it. She's been "out of practice" so to speak and it's almost like she's learning all that kind of thing all over again. She's not cold to me overall, but on that particular subject she was never very giving and so we're slowly getting it worked out. It's all a step up from the first 10 years of our marriage, in which I was lucky to get one 2 or 3 times a year.
Husband last turned one down ~three years ago. I never offered again after that. He hasn't asked either.
I used to offer to give my wife oral almost every night. She turned it down, saying her issues keep her from enjoying it. I guess some people feel insecure about that area down there, especially women. Now she says she wants it, so that's a good sign I guess. I do it well she says, but she seems to hold back nonetheless even these days.
Note to self: never never never turn down head from wife.
I once complained about my wife's ironing job. That was nearly 20 years ago. Guess how many shirts she's ironed since then!
lol. Well, if he asked for one I would do it. I'm never going to refuse him. The BJ refusal came after years and years of other rejections. That was the final nail, I never tried initiating anything again.
Last start to finish bj I gave my husband was Thursday. I enjoy giving more than receiving so he probably gets a start to finish 2-3x a week (minimum). Sometimes he will stop me saying he wants to save the finish for sex, this kinda frustrates me but hey I get some sex too so I deal with it
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Before that it was Monday, the day before my surgery.
