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Old 03-19-2012, 11:52 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Old 03-19-2012, 12:32 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Just have desire for each other, everything else will just flow
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Single one? Quit WORRYING so danged much! Kills sex.

I've read so much from women who can't let loose and have a screaming org*sm because they are worried how they look, smell, taste, sound, embarrassed about this, embarrassed about that, what's jiggling, not ladylike, ect, ect.
That quip about how the brain is the biggest sex organ is sooo true.
Your man wants you, or else why would he be naked with you? Show him you're fun and how much you like it. Not saying every single time has to be an Olympic event, but if you can't let loose in the bedroom with your partner, when can you?
Just-a my two cents.
Good advice.

I was simply going to say INITIATE. Get things started.

But its very similar to Lady's answer. Don't just sit there - wondering why its not happening...just DO IT!
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WILLING to try.
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Old 03-19-2012, 01:23 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Stop calling it Coitus for one.
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Never say no.
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Old 03-19-2012, 01:45 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Get out of the bedroom.
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For us it was when I stopped being so afraid to try new things, became open to my wife's interests in bed. Maybe that's not one thing, but really I guess it comes down to having an open attitude.
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Use your imagination. Think of yourself as a sexual being.
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Coitus??? Am I watching Big Bang Theory?

I know that it is not one thing but be willing to try new positions, places, techniques, toys, etc.
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The word "coitus" makes me think of 4th grade when we had the birds and the bees talk. My parents had to sign the permission slip so I could hear the talk. I remember the boy sitting next to me saying that the uterus and fallopian tubes looked like a moose's head.
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Many women enjoy a hot cup of Cunnilingus with their Coitus...something to consider when sexting...
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Sex on public transportation.
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Make sex war.
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Just one??? I've got a billion of 'em. Try reading a sex guide or a romance novel every now and then for inspiration. Don't learn from porn.

My all time favorite had to be giving cunniligus with her standing in front of a full length mirror and making her watch. I would sit down indian style with my legs outside her feet licking up and grip her butt to support. Watch out because she's likely to fall when she reaches orgasm.

Other fun things to try.....

-hold her arms back doing it doggy.
-open or close her legs to make her tighter or looser.
-rub a knuckle on her @$$ when giving cunnilingus.
-lick your thumb and rub her clit when she rides you.
-pick her up every now and again and have her hold on tight and grind you while you walk around the room. You can also put her against a wall.
-anything like a pullup bar or stair case she can hold on too standig up
-try treach her g spot with your tongue. 69 or face riding works better.
-leave her socks on and she'l get there quicker.
-if you spank her butt cheeks from the bottom edge up and in you can cause her to tighten for a sec or two. If you spank from the top you can topple her balance.
-use a clitoral vibrator during sex or bjs. You can use an internal egg but don't go deep or your bang the egg against her cervix.
-if you cause her cervix pain by going too deep or she just needs to come to relax her ovaries, do it doggy with her leaning way down.
-pillows help a lot with misionary positions and lying rear entry.
-use a belt, shirt, or bed sheet to pul her closer when doing it doggy.
-if she's into swallowing, right before you ejaculate have her push you to the back of her mouth near her tonsils. Then she will need a chaser like drink or a mint.
-cough drops make bjs more exciting.
-use a piece of syran wrap and stretch it over her. Humn on it like there's no tomorrow.
-when she's getting close start licking and kissing on her neck right under the ear and suck on her ear lobes. Try to remove her earings with your teeth.
-try to pull her panties down with your teeth and just your teeth
-pinch her big toes and lightly grab her feet from where the feet join the ankle. Slightly more pressure on the outsides.
-gummy life savors han be stretched into edible C-rings
-sugar free coolwhip, all the fun and less chances for yeast infections.
-scoop your hands under her butt kneeling in front and pull her into you
-take a cold shower after sex to decrease uncomfortable inflammation
-run your bathroom sing half fool of warm water and have her sit in it. Stand on a stool and enter her. Works best if you have a swivel faucet.
-every once in a while whisper in her ear she's doing good or that it feels great.
-pull her hair and bite her neck.
-watcing you lick and suck her nipples is more erotic to her than the feeling.
-have "ladies night" once a week where all you do is give her a massage and lick her.
-play with her nipples the whole time you 69
-when driving it home from standing and her on the bed wear shoes or you'll slip and have to keep stepping forwards.
-rub along the small of her back with your thumbs on each side of her spine when she's bent over.
-finger her with your middle and ring finger in a come here motion while rubbing up and dow on her clit with your palm as fast as possible. It should be pretty fast and have a lot of suction sounds.
-those yellow kitchen gloves have pleasurable bumps for finger grip.
-vitamin B 6 helps you get ready for round 2 faster. Try a 5hr energy shot a few hours before sex.

That's all the good stuff can think of for now
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