Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
speaking of porn...just how do these guys last so damn long? I mean they do it in multiple positions get long blow jobs and then finally cum all over the woman....what's up with that?
It's the magic of Hollywood.
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So we are finding out that apparently a lot of you watch porn eh???
Not so much funny as dumb and hokey. In the past I have watched a lot, I don't know if my eyes burned out or if it's just the lack of realism in mainstream porn but I find it quite boring and unsatisfactory. I still enjoy some erotica and even do a little "research" on the internet once in awhile, but I don't want to waste any more of my life looking and never participating - I cut it way back because I think it did effect my sex drive and to some extent played a part in my failed marriage. And I find when I need to my imagination can actually serve the purpose way better anyway.
We have had mind blowing sex in the past, but of course it is not most sex most of the time. Most times the mind blowing sex comes about as a result of something happening in our lives at the time.
Fantasy is at the heart of all entertainment. It is hard to imagine an average loving couple having "Wednesday night sex" being a fascinating read. Even with "Reality TV" no one would watch a show with a synopsis "reasonable people encounter typical problems and apply common sense to same"
I don't know about the pron stuff, but we have mind-blowing sex (at least for us) about 20% of the time. If it has been a week we are both really ready! Or if we are on vacation laying out on the beach with her in a skimpy bikini (even at 56, she still has a great body) we will both be very aroused. It could also be an unusual circumstance or an unusual place. It could be even watching a romantic movie cuddled up on the couch naked together or away at a B&B. However about 20% of the time is is a quickie...nothing special, but we are sexually connecting...she might not even have an orgasm at those times (like last night).
The other 60% of the time is is good...not mind blowing, not just sex, but good.
That is me though. For her, the way she moans and quivers during orgasm, I think she would say that it is mind-blowing more often. Last Saturday night it took her a while to get there but when she went...OMG...
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The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)
Anyone seen Boogie Nights?
I only watch free short clips of porn do I have no idea what you guys are talking about in terms of these hourlong sessions. I like the cliff notes version. Lol.
Fabio is nasty.
I used to think Anne rice's erotica was so awesome and thought she had to have an amazing sex life but she admits that the vast majority of it was stuff she would never do and had never done. In fact she only had sex with one man, her late husband.
Why would a man say "damn you" during sex? That's funny.
Just drink a lot and make sure you're tired. Then have sex and you'll be sated and pass out. Lol. Posted via Mobile Device
Lora Leigh's books especially her Breeds books are so predictable. And the mating heat stuff. So overdone. It's like she takes the same sex scene then c/p into the next book. Just how many times do her heroes say "damn you" during sex? I swear the man says it every.single.time I don't know any guy that says that during sex.
Maya Banks is ok. I like Lorelai James. Her stuff is good if you like cowboys.
Romance novels are porn for women. Some of the stuff esp in Lora Leigh's books are so unbelievable.
I agree with your take on the “Breeds” series but what about the “Bound Hearts” series. In my next life I want to come back as one of Lora Leigh’s main female characters in one of these books.
Porn's not real?..really?..awwww SHAT!!!!, next your going to tell me theres no Santa Claus or Easter Bunny and that Beer is bad....whats the world coming to?
I’m curious about something. I read a lot and have just gotten into reading erotica and for those who have read any Lora Leigh, Maya Banks or really any type or erotic fiction, you might have a better idea of what it is that I’m asking.
Is anybody out there having this kind of sex? I mean I think my hubby and I have a good sex life but it is nothing compared to the “mind blowing” sex that they’re having in books. I understand it is fiction and the beauty of the written word is that you can spice it, color it, describe it anyway you’d like, but surely these authors are getting some of their material through personal experience.
I have only been left “weak kneed” or fallen “completely sated” into a deep sleep after sex a hand full of times in my life. So tell me… is it possible? Are there really real people out there having sex "like ya read about”?
I've only gotten "weak in the knees" once in my life, and I was fully clothed at the time. I was at a Civil War Reenactment and saw a guy dressed like General Grant, and I LITERALLY got weak in the knees. I think it was a combination of the horse, the uniform, and the cigar!
I've only gotten "weak in the knees" once in my life, and I was fully clothed at the time. I was at a Civil War Reenactment and saw a guy dressed like General Grant, and I LITERALLY got weak in the knees. I think it was a combination of the horse, the uniform, and the cigar!
So - just to be clear - no sex in this "weak knees" experience?
So - just to be clear - no sex in this "weak knees" experience?
Nope, no sex. Just standing there, surrounded by hundreds of people, I looked up at him on his horse and got weak in the knees. I remember thinking "Wow. It's not just an expression, it really happens. Tried to talk my husband into becoming a cigar smoker, but he wouldn't go for it.
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- I cut it way back because I think it did effect my sex drive and to some extent played a part in my failed marriage. And I find when I need to my imagination can actually serve the purpose way better anyway.
Hard for me to believe too sometimes...
