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Usually the only time I engage in porn-star sex is the day which my wife and I have split 2-3 bottles of wine at a winery AND it happens to fall around her ovulation time.
Wow, new revelation: I need to schedule more winery visits at a certain time every month...
While it is nowhere near often, there have been times where My partner and I seem to reach this place (usually after LOTS of foreplay) where it is simply beyond just sex.
I typically feel this swelling in my chest when it happens and get intense waves through my whole body (not just sexual, fyi.)
It is possible, though for me it's rather rare. and both parties need to really "be there"
I’m curious about something. I read a lot and have just gotten into reading erotica and for those who have read any Lora Leigh, Maya Banks or really any type or erotic fiction, you might have a better idea of what it is that I’m asking.
Is anybody out there having this kind of sex? I mean I think my hubby and I have a good sex life but it is nothing compared to the “mind blowing” sex that they’re having in books. I understand it is fiction and the beauty of the written word is that you can spice it, color it, describe it anyway you’d like, but surely these authors are getting some of their material through personal experience.
I have only been left “weak kneed” or fallen “completely sated” into a deep sleep after sex a hand full of times in my life. So tell me… is it possible? Are there really real people out there having sex "like ya read about”?
Oh no. Someone else reading romance novels wondering why her life doesnt stack up.
On our honeymoon the first time we started making out after we got married, the way he was kissing me...I did get weak in the knees. It might be mother nature's way of saying "perhaps you should lay down..." Posted via Mobile Device
Nope, no sex. Just standing there, surrounded by hundreds of people, I looked up at him on his horse and got weak in the knees. I remember thinking "Wow. It's not just an expression, it really happens. Tried to talk my husband into becoming a cigar smoker, but he wouldn't go for it.
He could ride a horse to the bedroom one night in full costume!
speaking of porn...just how do these guys last so damn long? I mean they do it in multiple positions get long blow jobs and then finally cum all over the woman....what's up with that?
It seems they have a signal. When things start to get too worked up they signal the girl to slow things down. Plus you have to understand what your working with. IMHO
What is even more far fetched is how even though he's standing over her not touching about to make a mess of her face she is making orgasm sounds... ok, do you think she is faking? you really fooled me there...
I hate it when that happens, it kinda spoils things when a girl is just moaning to be moaning but not really being turned on by anything. It just reminds me that it's not real and turns me off to it. At this point I usually turn the sound down so I can finish.
Porn's not real?..really?..awwww SHAT!!!!, next your going to tell me theres no Santa Claus or Easter Bunny and that Beer is bad....whats the world coming to?
There are obviously fake things in porn but in most of porn the 'important' stuff is real. Porn has gotten more real over the years with its proliferation over the internet and the ease and low cost of making it. In the past it was less real because you had a very small number of highly professional actors who were numb to it. Now you have many more 'real' people who do it - both in professionally done films and true amateur ones.
You can't fake penetration in a porn film...it's 100% real and not 'acting' (not to say some sounds, etc are not exaggerated). Some c&mshots are fake but most are real. Of course some have fake story lines like the common ones now where women are picked up on the street and end up doing porn...but the sex is 100% real.
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Re: Is that the kind of sex you’re having? 
Same here, dude!
I haven't been to a Civil War re-enactment in a long time. I think it's time o go again. 
