My husband won't have sex with me
I have been married for about six and a half years, and in that time my husband and I have had sex maybe 6 times. When we first started dating, we had sex all the time, sometimes multiple times a day. It gradually waned, until it became what it is now. I feel like we are roommates, or even brother/sister relationship, because we are best friends but there seems to be nothing else. I’ve tried talking to him about it, and he apologizes and says he wants to have sex more but nothing changes. We’ve been talking about having a baby; we are both in our early 30s and I desperately want kids. I try not to make sex just about that, because I don’t want to put too much pressure on him, but I am very frustrated and depressed. He says he’s attracted to me and he has been more affectionate lately. However, he is completely clueless when I try to make a move, and there is usually some excuse as to why we can’t do it. Just the other day, we had another talk and I told him that if he doesn’t want kids then I think we should divorce because I can’t and won’t wait forever. He assures me that he definitely wants a baby soon, but then nothing changes. I even told him that if he doesn’t want a baby now, I still want to have sex, and will even use condoms if he’s worried about it. I just want to have a real marriage. Do you have any advice for me? I am at my wit’s end.