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Old 03-28-2012, 11:13 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I'm a fairly new poster here. I posted a thread recently about my wife masturbating while I was abstaining from sex due to a medical condition.

Anyway, got the OK from the doctor for intercourse, and he told me to take it easy for the next week, no vigorous thrusting, no rough handling of my penis for a while.

So anyway, last night my wife and I had the best sex either of us have ever had, hands down. I started off with giving her a nude full body massage, including a long foot rub. I then serviced her orally and with my fingers until she came a couple of times.

Instead of the typical "in and out" penetration, I simply plunged all the way in, and continued to rub her clitoris (and the area directly below it) without moving my penis around very much. It drove her crazy, and allowed us to continue to do this for well over an hour in various positions, occasionally returning to me giving her oral, and rubbing her G-spot with my fingers.

She says she lost count of her orgasms, and at certain points her orgasmic contractions were so strong, she was literally squeezing my penis out of her. When she had enough, she pulled me out and finished me off with her mouth, and when it was my turn, she took her mouth off of me, and I came with so much volume and force, most of my cum ended up on my face (I was lying on my back).

I never knew sex could be that awesome and intense! Of course, abstaining for a couple of weeks without release, and stretching the lovemaking out over 90 minutes (we usually go for 20 to 30 minutes max) or so definitely played a role. My wife literally had trouble walking the next morning.

So has anyone experienced this type of bliss from using a more Tantric approach to PIV (insertion, but minimal to no thrusting)? I'm thinking we should be doing this every time we make love. I am going to do some more online research (as well as some more live experimentation) into this "thrustless" intercourse, but if anyone has any personal experiences with this, I'd be interested in hearing more.
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Nope, but thanks for the idea
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Old 03-28-2012, 11:23 AM   #3 (permalink)
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This is exactly what our sexual experience is like. I prefer long and slow, and my husband gets excited by seeing my reaction. We love to explore and tease, and my husband saves thrusting for last, or we end with a BJ.

Early in our marriage I asked him if he didn't get frustrated by holding out so long. He said, "Hell no, babe! I love it when you are so passionate." That is why my username is LovesHerMan!
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Kinda but not the whole time. It is really awesome.
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Old 03-28-2012, 12:06 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I've got a book about it; am nearly finished, and it's something I'll try to introduce to my husband, since he has so many issues with sex. This really is 'no pressure'. And it sounds salacious. I get turned on everytime I read it. Crazy! Good to know that put into actual practice, it works! Thanks for the post.

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Old 03-28-2012, 12:25 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Just putting in the penis and having a vibrator on the clit is a great way to orgasm too. You get to feel every movement she makes if you pay enough attention to such things ;-)
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I would have to say that it was as close to an "out of body" experience that I have ever had, and my wife had a similar, if not even more intense experience than I did. I'm nearly 50 years old, and I didn't think it was even possible that sex could be that amazing and great, and we were stone sober, too.

The only downside of it is that we have now set the bar for our peak sexual experience very high, and the usual 20 or 30 minutes of "kiss, lick, suck, f*ck" that we usually do won't seem nearly as satisfying as it once was. I reckon that is the nature of great expectations, isn't it?
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Never done that but it sounds amazing!
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So has anyone experienced this type of bliss from using a more Tantric approach to PIV (insertion, but minimal to no thrusting)?
I'm sorry to say, no, I have not...and I'm slightly jealous. :( lol.

But WOW, you and your wife are amazing together. Congratulations on knowing how to please a woman, keeper, not many men (at least the ones that I've dated) get "it" like you. Your wife's a lucky woman! Wow!
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Funny, all this time I thought your husband's name was "Sherman"
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I second Marielle, I'm horribly jealous.

My husband is 24 so all he wants to do is go at it like a porn star. We've had sex "slow" like twice. Eh.
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Old 03-28-2012, 11:50 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Funny, all this time I thought your husband's name was "Sherman"
lmao I kept reading it LoveSherman or LovesHerman too. Sorry? I know better now.

And the tantric sex book is now on my list of things to pick up. Love you people.
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I'm a fairly new poster here. I posted a thread recently about my wife masturbating while I was abstaining from sex due to a medical condition.

Anyway, got the OK from the doctor for intercourse, and he told me to take it easy for the next week, no vigorous thrusting, no rough handling of my penis for a while.

So anyway, last night my wife and I had the best sex either of us have ever had, hands down. I started off with giving her a nude full body massage, including a long foot rub. I then serviced her orally and with my fingers until she came a couple of times.

Instead of the typical "in and out" penetration, I simply plunged all the way in, and continued to rub her clitoris (and the area directly below it) without moving my penis around very much. It drove her crazy, and allowed us to continue to do this for well over an hour in various positions, occasionally returning to me giving her oral, and rubbing her G-spot with my fingers.

She says she lost count of her orgasms, and at certain points her orgasmic contractions were so strong, she was literally squeezing my penis out of her. When she had enough, she pulled me out and finished me off with her mouth, and when it was my turn, she took her mouth off of me, and I came with so much volume and force, most of my cum ended up on my face (I was lying on my back).

I never knew sex could be that awesome and intense! Of course, abstaining for a couple of weeks without release, and stretching the lovemaking out over 90 minutes (we usually go for 20 to 30 minutes max) or so definitely played a role. My wife literally had trouble walking the next morning.

So has anyone experienced this type of bliss from using a more Tantric approach to PIV (insertion, but minimal to no thrusting)? I'm thinking we should be doing this every time we make love. I am going to do some more online research (as well as some more live experimentation) into this "thrustless" intercourse, but if anyone has any personal experiences with this, I'd be interested in hearing more.
Yes. Try with your wife on top.
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OMG, all this time I thought it was Love Sherman!

ETA: OK, I just read more of the posts above mine, and I see I'm not the only one. Whew!
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Lots of kegel 'exercising' without thrusting worked for STBXH every time we tried it, and it got me closer just from contracting those muscles.
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