03-28-2012, 12:50 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: Three times in five days!!
Did a 180, one night when he fell asleep on a Friday night I told him I was going out by myself and he just was so confused. We ended up having a talk about how things hadn't been going well so I was going to focus on what I could control and make myself better. I turned down the heat a lot, made him make the first move. One night I just said I wasn't in the mood and then when he got out of the shower I attacked him. The next day he said we both needed a break from keeping track of how long it had been in between sex. (??)
I also encouraged him to go to IC for issues with his ex and kids and that has helped. I think the season and more daylight helps too.
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