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post #1 of 61 (permalink) Old 04-03-2012, 01:57 PM Thread Starter
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I can't stop thinking about sex.

What is wrong with me?????????

I can not for the life of me stop thinking about sex. It's only sex with my husband and no one else. It disgusts me to think about sleeping with another man other then my husband.

There's always this warm feeling down there ready to go. I'd like to get wild and crazy, but with my neck injury that is impossible.

This has been going on for months. I'm honestly thinking I'm wearing my husband out. I backed off a bit, but I need to start up again before I explode.

Self stimulation is not satisfying enough for me, nor is the vibrator. I NEED my husband and the passion that goes along with it. I need the emotional connection along with it.

Sex/making love is consuming my thoughts 24/7. I try to keep myself busy doing other things, but that warm feeling keeps reminding me of my needs.

Luckily my husband has a higher drive. I can't imagine anything less then 4 times a week.

I flirt, grope, and talk dirty to him all the time. I think my testosterone levels are a bit high right now. I let my husband know early on in the morning, so he can prepare when he gets home from work.

I've even begged him to wake me up in the middle if the night for some loving. I can't wait for that to happen!

Anyways, cold showers do not help. They just make me feel miserable.

Is this normal?

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Re: I can't stop thinking about sex.

Whatever your drinking... can you give some of that to my wife please?

To answer your question... lol that's how guys feel like at times (well ok when we are awake).
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Re: I can't stop thinking about sex.

Lucky is your hubby - thats all I can say.
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What is wrong with me?????????

I can not for the life of me stop thinking about sex. It's only sex with my husband and no one else. It disgusts me to think about sleeping with another man other then my husband.

There's always this warm feeling down there ready to go. I'd like to get wild and crazy, but with my neck injury that is impossible.

This has been going on for months. I'm honestly thinking I'm wearing my husband out. I backed off a bit, but I need to start up again before I explode.

Self stimulation is not satisfying enough for me, nor is the vibrator. I NEED my husband and the passion that goes along with it. I need the emotional connection along with it.

Sex/making love is consuming my thoughts 24/7. I try to keep myself busy doing other things, but that warm feeling keeps reminding me of my needs.

Luckily my husband has a higher drive. I can't imagine anything less then 4 times a week.

I flirt, grope, and talk dirty to him all the time. I think my testosterone levels are a bit high right now. I let my husband know early on in the morning, so he can prepare when he gets home from work.

I've even begged him to wake me up in the middle if the night for some loving. I can't wait for that to happen!

Anyways, cold showers do not help. They just make me feel miserable.

Is this normal?
Your hubby is a VERY lucky man. Please bottle whatever you have and sell it to me. I'd give one of my non-essential appendages at this point to know what that's like. Sounds like you're a man trapped in a woman's body.

On a serious note, are you taking any medications recently that would explain the change?
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Your hubby is a VERY lucky man. Please bottle whatever you have and sell it to me. I'd give one of my non-essential appendages at this point to know what that's like. Sounds like you're a man trapped in a woman's body.

On a serious note, are you taking any medications recently that would explain the change?
No, it's my age. I think I hit my prime sex drive.

My hubby is convinced I'm taking extra vitamins.lol
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No, it's my age. I think I hit my prime sex drive.

My hubby is convinced I'm taking extra vitamins.lol
I have a solution. Quit your husband and marry me.
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Just kidding.....
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I have a solution. Quit your husband and marry me.
LMAO! I'd never ever give up such a wonderful man. He deserves the world.
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I get like that sometimes. And the more I get the more I want, so the more I get the more I want...and so on...and so on....and so on....

Doesn't happen much these days! When it does I'm pretty much SOL.
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No, it's my age. I think I hit my prime sex drive.

My hubby is convinced I'm taking extra vitamins.lol
Yeah wish that was universal. I should be rolling in the nookie if that were the case. Actually I'm pretty sure Bandit doesn't want to marry you. Would taking a lock of hair and going to a tribal witch doctor be a little too creepy?
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And the problem is?
We're not married to "her"
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How old are you? And congrats! . My STBXW never hit her sexual peak, or at least not anything noticeable.

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A dream is a wish your heart makes..........when you're fast asleep.

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What is wrong with me?????????

I can not for the life of me stop thinking about sex. It's only sex with my husband and no one else. It disgusts me to think about sleeping with another man other then my husband.

There's always this warm feeling down there ready to go. I'd like to get wild and crazy, but with my neck injury that is impossible.

This has been going on for months. I'm honestly thinking I'm wearing my husband out. I backed off a bit, but I need to start up again before I explode.

Self stimulation is not satisfying enough for me, nor is the vibrator. I NEED my husband and the passion that goes along with it. I need the emotional connection along with it.

Sex/making love is consuming my thoughts 24/7. I try to keep myself busy doing other things, but that warm feeling keeps reminding me of my needs.

Luckily my husband has a higher drive. I can't imagine anything less then 4 times a week.

I flirt, grope, and talk dirty to him all the time. I think my testosterone levels are a bit high right now. I let my husband know early on in the morning, so he can prepare when he gets home from work.

I've even begged him to wake me up in the middle if the night for some loving. I can't wait for that to happen!

Anyways, cold showers do not help. They just make me feel miserable.

Is this normal?

welcome to my world....i've been this way for about 3/4 years. sometimes around "that time" of the month, it could be worse....

i'd say, kick back and enjoy it. wear out your husband...one day it wont be so easy...and make up for lost time [any lost time].

being here on tam, isnt condusive to not thinking about sex....

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Normal is subjective! But, if sex really is consuming your thoughts 24/7 then maybe that is a bit excessive? Maybe I am the only one who would suggest this as a possibility...but any time something consumes 100% of your thoughts this situation can cause a lot of stress.
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