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Old 04-13-2012, 09:20 AM   #31 (permalink)
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No offense but a lot of the songs people are picking would make me more nervous or make me wanna dance at the club - lol, instead of feeling all relaaaaxed and euphoric and in the mood.
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No offense but a lot of the songs people are picking would make me more nervous or make me wanna dance at the club - lol, instead of feeling all relaaaaxed and euphoric and in the mood.
Music is very personal. For me rap/heavy metal has no business in the bedroom... outside the bedroom sure. Again though it's 100% personal, for some it may be the greatest thing ever.

Pick and choose what works for you... lol or don't.
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Old 04-13-2012, 10:58 AM   #33 (permalink)
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Pop goes the Weasel?

I think it works for the occasion.
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Old 04-14-2012, 12:12 AM   #34 (permalink)
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No matter who I have been with over the years songs like this always get things going nicely in the bedroom.

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Are you kidding???? Metal is perfect.... I could pound it all night to some grunge/hard rock and then take is slow during the ballads and solos. Why is hard rock so perfect you say, because someone has been a bad bad girl and NEEDS TO BE PUNISHED! While I hear bands like Godsmack or Nirvana the voice inside my head tells me "Get some... Did I tell you to stop?!", except it's the voice of a drill sargent which is a little weird but it's just the motivation I need to get her off agn and again.
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I find music too distracting and hokey during sex, personally.

Whatever floats your boat. XD
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Old 04-14-2012, 04:39 AM   #37 (permalink)
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I'd like to come up with a playlist for sex. I'm usually into kind of grungy, alternative type stuff with an edge to it. Anyone have favorite songs for sex?
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Old 04-14-2012, 08:45 AM   #38 (permalink)
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Ok for those of you who like classical sounding instruments, but also like modern pop/rock... lol check out this: http://grooveshark.com/#!/artist/Vit...Quartet/338603
http://grooveshark.com/#!/vitamin_string_quartet/albums

It's modern music played with normal (non-electric) violins and other stringed instruments. You can read more about it here:

Vitamin String Quartet - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Friend of mine turned me onto it, we don't use it during sex personally... but it's pretty amazing imo. Who knows maybe it will work for someone.
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I am a lover of most genres. I love 'classic' mood music by Luther Vandrose and all those. BUT when it gets right down to the act of sex? There is not much that is pretty about the act and I am not into that pretty music at that point. When music is involved, I like to get lost in the rythm and pulse. It seems to bring bodies into that motion.
I believe at this point, no music list is complete without Metallica! The prettiest song (I am bias as I got married to it) is Nothing Else Matters. Every metal band has a love song and this one is theirs.

I love Metallica and Godmsack, (Voodoo is an excellent 'groove' song). Anyways, that is all I have got to add.
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No offense but a lot of the songs people are picking would make me more nervous or make me wanna dance at the club - lol, instead of feeling all relaaaaxed and euphoric and in the mood.
Try some Incubus. Works for me.
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Anything by Sade, Jill Scott, or Maxwell. I like music for back ground noise so the kids can't hear us. Loud rap or heavy metal would kill my mood.
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Are you kidding???? Metal is perfect.... I could pound it all night to some grunge/hard rock and then take is slow during the ballads and solos. Why is hard rock so perfect you say, because someone has been a bad bad girl and NEEDS TO BE PUNISHED! While I hear bands like Godsmack or Nirvana the voice inside my head tells me "Get some... Did I tell you to stop?!", except it's the voice of a drill sargent which is a little weird but it's just the motivation I need to get her off agn and again.
WOW...

punish me

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WOW...

punish me

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LOL
youre so bad
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youre so bad
Yeah...I can't help myself sometimes. I'm a scorpio with a sense of humor...crazy combination.
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Yeah...I can't help myself sometimes. I'm a scorpio with a sense of humor...crazy combination.
me too!
without the sense of humor.
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