04-08-2012, 09:09 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: Sex is different after marriage!
Definitely not swinging!
We're light BDSM, nothing too harsh. But I think it takes a lot of effort on his part and now that we're all "said and done," it's just too much work. I have tried to talk to him about it but he gets defensive. Plus, from previous bad experience, I do NOT want to have to ASK for it. I don't want it if he doesn't want it....although I want it, lol. Make any sense?!