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I don't want to be gross or anything, but if you want to know what you smell like, just put your finger there and smell it, that would be a clue as to what your man is smelling.
I don't want to be gross or anything, but if you want to know what you smell like, just put your finger there and smell it, that would be a clue as to what your man is smelling.
Ha, that's what he said. He was like "can't you smell your own vag?" Yeah I can but what smell might be alright to me may not be pleasant to him so just wondering if he was ok with my supposed natural scent. He almost seemed offended that I asked. Gents, how would you react if your lady asked if you liked how she smelled down there?
If I go down for a few seconds and stop and get lint off my tongue, my wife will immediately ask, "Is it okay?" 99% of the time I say "It's perfect". It's definitely okay to ask your man that, it lets them know you actually care. If I was to say, yes, a slight odor. My wife would offer to wash off better.
In my experience, the only time I have smelt my wife with any odor was the day after I came deep insider her. We no longer cum inside her vagina unless she is near or on her period.
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Re: So what IS vaginal smell supposed to be like?
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Originally Posted by SepticChange
Ha, that's what he said. He was like "can't you smell your own vag?" Yeah I can but what smell might be alright to me may not be pleasant to him so just wondering if he was ok with my supposed natural scent. He almost seemed offended that I asked. Gents, how would you react if your lady asked if you liked how she smelled down there?
I think this may very well be the case. There is an interaction of hormones and pheromones that may very well make the perception a man has very different from the perception a woman has, or may make us smell something a woman may not. I'm not sure everything that has an effect on me is something I actually smell, but I know breathing it in has a POWERFUL effect on me.
I have actually asked her a number of times how the smell affected her, or what effects it had on her when I had been eating her, then kissed her. I'm very sensitive to try to make sex very pleasant for my wife. I actually derive more pleasure from her pleasure than I do directly from sex, so this is an important point for me. I think it's become something she's not only comfortable with, but seems to enjoy. I'm glad she enjoys it since it frees me to enjoy it without inhibition or without worry that I'm doing something she finds gross, but is participating with just to keep from offending me. (That would be a little different from willingly pushing the boundaries - something we still find ways to do and find new enjoyment with.)
Nirvana--I smell sex and candy! I like working together's suggestion to see what it smells like, although I do get a visual of Mary Catherine Gallagher sniffing her fingers after touching her armpits!
Ha, that's what he said. He was like "can't you smell your own vag?" Yeah I can but what smell might be alright to me may not be pleasant to him so just wondering if he was ok with my supposed natural scent. He almost seemed offended that I asked. Gents, how would you react if your lady asked if you liked how she smelled down there?
I would personally love that (especially with where we are now), But I would have to say "I can't remember, I'll need to head down there to check it out".
My wife has a very faint almost non existent smell. It's kind of strange because before her I could always smell the scent of others. Never detered me from going down. It makes me salivate just thinking about it.
Nirvana--I smell sex and candy! I like working together's suggestion to see what it smells like, although I do get a visual of Mary Catherine Gallagher sniffing her fingers after touching her armpits!