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Anal Sex and Hemorrhoids

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#1 ·
Hi ladies...

I developed hemorrhoids after having children.....It isn't internal, but external. You can see it. I really want to try anal sex, but I'm scared it will land me a trip to the E.R. Is it safe to have anal with hemorrhoids? If not, is there anything that I can do to get rid of it? I don't have health insurance, so a dr.'s visit would be really pricey! Thanks!
 
#2 ·
Just....don't....

Can't you imagine the pain of hemorrhoids, PLUS the thrusting of a penis on top of it all? And you WANT to try this?

Can't you find something a little more fun to try? I don't mean to sound harsh, but take it from someone who has had numerous problems in that area (not due to anal, but it certainly would have compounded my problems)...anal sex is out for you.
 
#3 ·
candie is right, I wouldnt until the hemorrhoids is cleared up, your asking for alot of trouble.
 
#10 ·
because, like most people, her hemorrhoids aren't likely that big of a problem to get surgery. Flare ups can be treated with the suppositories and go away in a day or two. Now if she had chronic flare ups then there would be an issue, but she doesn't have pain according to her.
 
#7 ·
I have external hemorrhoids and enjoy anal sex. Mine act up only occasionally and I avoid anal during those times. Other than that as long as my husband is nice and easy upon entry the anal sex really doesn't cause me an issue. Lots of lube and some patience on his part are the two most important things.
 
#30 ·
Ok, I was gonna ask about this myself. But first I just must comment.. you can have an orgasm just from thinking about someone or sex if it excites you enough, I have done it many times, no need for even penetration or a partner. Now.. I have had anal sex before, and I suffer from hemorrhoids badly, I already had surgery once, they were supposed to be eliminated, but it wasn't because the doc feared some anal fissure. Anyway, I had anal sex like a year after surgery but my partner at that time had a small..., my bf now has a big one, and I have tried a couple of times, and I really want to do it, but, just in trying it upset them so bad. I wonder if there is a good lubricant that will help. It's not about do it or don't, I want to do it, it's about how to make it happen. I don't want jokes please, I am being so serious, I just want good advice from someone that maybe has gone thru it and knows how to deal with it.
 
#34 ·
The only way to get rid of them permantntly is surgery however you can have your family physician lance it and remove the thrombus that is causing the problem. At that point it will go away but will likely come back after a few months - year. If you have your doc do this; the more strictly you follow his instructions afterward the longer it will stay gone.
 
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