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Old 04-10-2012, 04:38 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi ladies...

I developed hemorrhoids after having children.....It isn't internal, but external. You can see it. I really want to try anal sex, but I'm scared it will land me a trip to the E.R. Is it safe to have anal with hemorrhoids? If not, is there anything that I can do to get rid of it? I don't have health insurance, so a dr.'s visit would be really pricey! Thanks!
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Old 04-10-2012, 04:44 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Just....don't....

Can't you imagine the pain of hemorrhoids, PLUS the thrusting of a penis on top of it all? And you WANT to try this?

Can't you find something a little more fun to try? I don't mean to sound harsh, but take it from someone who has had numerous problems in that area (not due to anal, but it certainly would have compounded my problems)...anal sex is out for you.
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candie is right, I wouldnt until the hemorrhoids is cleared up, your asking for alot of trouble.
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See, the hemorrhoid does not cause me any discomfort at all. It is just kind of there. Do you guys know any ways that I can get rid of it? I really want to try anal sex with my fiance.
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Why not get treated for the hemorrhoids , then try anal?
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yeah, youre just** assing **for trouble.....lol
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I have external hemorrhoids and enjoy anal sex. Mine act up only occasionally and I avoid anal during those times. Other than that as long as my husband is nice and easy upon entry the anal sex really doesn't cause me an issue. Lots of lube and some patience on his part are the two most important things.
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Hi ladies...

I developed hemorrhoids after having children.....It isn't internal, but external. You can see it. I really want to try anal sex, but I'm scared it will land me a trip to the E.R. Is it safe to have anal with hemorrhoids? If not, is there anything that I can do to get rid of it? I don't have health insurance, so a dr.'s visit would be really pricey! Thanks!
as long you aren't in a flare up you should be fine, use LOTS of lube

my wife also got hemorrhoids from childbirth and she enjoys anal on occasion and will even orgasm from it
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A guy won't want to put it in your a$$ if you've got those hemorhoid thingies sticking out.

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Why not get treated for the hemorrhoids , then try anal?

because, like most people, her hemorrhoids aren't likely that big of a problem to get surgery. Flare ups can be treated with the suppositories and go away in a day or two. Now if she had chronic flare ups then there would be an issue, but she doesn't have pain according to her.
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A guy won't want to put it in your a$$ if you've got those hemorhoid thingies sticking out.

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I don't think you realize just how common hemorrhoids are (especially in women who give birth), they dont stick out looking all gross all the time, only when they flare up and get swollen
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I don't think you realize just how common hemorrhoids are (especially in women who give birth), they dont stick out looking all gross all the time, only when they flare up and get swollen
Oh. I went out with a girl who had one, I kept pressing it in and it kept popping back out again.
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Oh. I went out with a girl who had one, I kept pressing it in and it kept popping back out again.
well for some it can get pretty bad (George Brett from the KC Royals had it bad) , but for most it's not a big deal
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btw- interesting side note

the main ingredient in Preparation H is cocoa butter AKA white chocolate!!!
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Now I'm hungry.
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