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Old 04-12-2012, 09:22 PM   #16 (permalink)
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pineapple juice is seriously supposed to make it taste better.

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I dunno...not trying to belittle anyones feelings (honestly), but I just don't get it. Its just cum? There's like a tablespoon to swallow at most. I can think of a trillion other things that gross me out more. Don't think about it, just swallow it.
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The amount on how much there is depends on the last time he came. It can actually get up to a large disgusting amount..
And yes, some how pineapple juice and pineapples actually do make it taste better. As soon as they don't eat them, and just eat everything but.. it will get really disgusting. The taste depends on his diet.
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My husband loves for me go down on him and I always have to finish him of by jerking him off because I cant stand cum in my mouth. I know that what you eat changes the taste of the cum but I dont think it is the taste that bothers me. Maybe some of it but the problem I have the most is the consistency. A couple years ago I tried it and he tells me I didnt mind it at all. Unfortunately, I dont remember. I tried it again about a year ago and I dont know if it was the cum that hit the back of my throat that made me gag or the cum itself. I really would like to be able to do this for him because I know he would LOVE it. If I can do this for him then I am hoping he returns the favor of something that I would really love from him. I want to know what to do to handle the cum. Do you get used to it? Do you have to think about something else? What should I do?
Hi kdm ~

The thing that bothers me the most in your post is what I high-lighted... the transactional "if I do this for him, then he might do that for me".

I think you should do things because you want to, because you want to please your spouse and be giving to them with no strings attached.

Otherwise, I don't know how you would ever really be able to get in to it... not with a full and giving heart anyway.

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pineapple juice is seriously supposed to make it taste better.

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It really does work too.
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It really does work too.
Yes I did a LOT of reading on this. Basically asparagus makes the nastiest stuff, but pineapple juice(not orange, not strawberry, not grape) but PINEAPPLE juice is the best for that 'situation'.
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I dunno...not trying to belittle anyones feelings (honestly), but I just don't get it. Its just cum? There's like a tablespoon to swallow at most. I can think of a trillion other things that gross me out more. Don't think about it, just swallow it.
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it's a lot more than a tablespoon baby....at least mine is...
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Make sure he's drinking lots of water. Being dehydrated and then drinking coffee will make for a stiff bad tasting experience. At least that's what I've been told.
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I have offered to do this to my husband more than a few times...However, he thinks this is disrespecting me and would rather come inside of me when we both hit that magic place of letting it all hang out....

One day when we were on a trip and he was asleep, I knew that by giving him oral sex that he would ejaculate...This he would do in his sleep as he really gets hot...Actually, he never woke up...I did this and like I figured he let go...I was waiting and had a good taste of what so many women didn't care to swallow...I had to agree that it sure didn't turn me on and truthfully was happy at what he had said to me...I suck him and swallow his pre cum all the time, but not the full load...

I look at it this way....As for my ejaculate, this has a very sweet taste....Actually, it is a sexual turn on...Have not needed lubricant for about eight years...This is part of who I am...I feel if a woman doesn't like the taste that she shouldn't force herself...Spit it in a cup...What is the point of swallowing and gagging to try and prove you love someone...That, IMO, makes no sense...However, if he keep insisting that you do this, then tell him to fill a shot glass full of his cum and drink it down....If he can do it, then she may be able to handle it too...Take care....
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I am going to go a step further on this subject...I came from 12 years of Parochial School....Really knew nothing about oral sex on a man...I dated a lot, but demanded respect...And may I add that I got it...The first time a man's penis came into play was with my boss who demanded I kiss his...This was a bad experience (this happened before I was married and really messed with my mind) and one that I prefer to forget...Just about ruined my marriage....

Now for the problem...After we married my husband wanted me to give him oral sex....Took years for me to go this route in life...Took some drinks and a hot evening...Gradually, I changed, but preaching and schooling really did a job on me...At this moment I can say without reservation and as much as I loved him, if my husband would have insisted on my giving him oral sex and much less swallowing I would have divorced him....I was not ready for this part of life...The woman within the woman had not grown to this perfection...Now saying this, think of what both he and I could have lost...We are the height of perfection in sexual intercourse....Make each other tick and probably one of the most horny old ladies around...In fact I am going to write Shy in a post tonight on my thread...He said something to me months ago that I denied....It was only today at lunch at TGIF, when I told my husband about it that I admitted that Shy was right....The shame of this is that I was ashamed....Take care...

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My husband loves for me go down on him and I always have to finish him of by jerking him off because I cant stand cum in my mouth. I know that what you eat changes the taste of the cum but I dont think it is the taste that bothers me. Maybe some of it but the problem I have the most is the consistency. A couple years ago I tried it and he tells me I didnt mind it at all. Unfortunately, I dont remember. I tried it again about a year ago and I dont know if it was the cum that hit the back of my throat that made me gag or the cum itself. I really would like to be able to do this for him because I know he would LOVE it. If I can do this for him then I am hoping he returns the favor of something that I would really love from him. I want to know what to do to handle the cum. Do you get used to it? Do you have to think about something else? What should I do?
I think you are worrying yourself sick over this and that is not necessary. It's simple, if you cannot stand cum in your mouth, don't let him cum in your mouth. I know you want to please your man, and it's very sweet that you love him so, but he wouldn't want you worrying about this. Men LOVE to get oral and you are giving him oral. When he starts to orgasm, and you pull it out of your mouth and use your hand, his orgasm is not going to stop or be less pleasurable.

No matter what he eats, cum is never going to taste like candy. Don't beat yourself up for not liking the taste. You love him, you love his penis, believe me, that is enough for him!
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I think you are worrying yourself sick over this and that is not necessary. It's simple, if you cannot stand cum in your mouth, don't let him cum in your mouth. I know you want to please your man, and it's very sweet that you love him so, but he wouldn't want you worrying about this. Men LOVE to get oral and you are giving him oral. When he starts to orgasm, and you pull it out of your mouth and use your hand, his orgasm is not going to stop or be less pleasurable.

No matter what he eats, cum is never going to taste like candy. Don't beat yourself up for not liking the taste. You love him, you love his penis, believe me, that is enough for him!

This is pretty much what my husband said about the issue. I tried it again using a peppermint lube to try to make it taste better. I dont think it was the taste. I think it is that he cums a lot and just the way it spits. If it just pored I think it wouldnt matter. But what you said is what he said. And I also am getting something out of this that I really would love to see. I love to watch him masturbate but he doenst like me watching. So when we were talking about me not being able to handle the cum, I asked if when he gets close if he would finish himself on my chest. I cant wait.
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what does THIS have to do with having a big sticky glob of snot textured cum platter all over in your mouth?
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He should consider himself lucky to have you! You sound like the perfect wife.
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