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Old 04-12-2012, 10:22 PM   #16 (permalink)
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pineapple juice is seriously supposed to make it taste better.

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I dunno...not trying to belittle anyones feelings (honestly), but I just don't get it. Its just cum? There's like a tablespoon to swallow at most. I can think of a trillion other things that gross me out more. Don't think about it, just swallow it.
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The amount on how much there is depends on the last time he came. It can actually get up to a large disgusting amount..
And yes, some how pineapple juice and pineapples actually do make it taste better. As soon as they don't eat them, and just eat everything but.. it will get really disgusting. The taste depends on his diet.
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My husband loves for me go down on him and I always have to finish him of by jerking him off because I cant stand cum in my mouth. I know that what you eat changes the taste of the cum but I dont think it is the taste that bothers me. Maybe some of it but the problem I have the most is the consistency. A couple years ago I tried it and he tells me I didnt mind it at all. Unfortunately, I dont remember. I tried it again about a year ago and I dont know if it was the cum that hit the back of my throat that made me gag or the cum itself. I really would like to be able to do this for him because I know he would LOVE it. If I can do this for him then I am hoping he returns the favor of something that I would really love from him. I want to know what to do to handle the cum. Do you get used to it? Do you have to think about something else? What should I do?
Hi kdm ~

The thing that bothers me the most in your post is what I high-lighted... the transactional "if I do this for him, then he might do that for me".

I think you should do things because you want to, because you want to please your spouse and be giving to them with no strings attached.

Otherwise, I don't know how you would ever really be able to get in to it... not with a full and giving heart anyway.

Best wishes.
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pineapple juice is seriously supposed to make it taste better.

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It really does work too.
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It really does work too.
Yes I did a LOT of reading on this. Basically asparagus makes the nastiest stuff, but pineapple juice(not orange, not strawberry, not grape) but PINEAPPLE juice is the best for that 'situation'.
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I dunno...not trying to belittle anyones feelings (honestly), but I just don't get it. Its just cum? There's like a tablespoon to swallow at most. I can think of a trillion other things that gross me out more. Don't think about it, just swallow it.
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it's a lot more than a tablespoon baby....at least mine is...
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Make sure he's drinking lots of water. Being dehydrated and then drinking coffee will make for a stiff bad tasting experience. At least that's what I've been told.
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My husband loves for me go down on him and I always have to finish him of by jerking him off because I cant stand cum in my mouth. I know that what you eat changes the taste of the cum but I dont think it is the taste that bothers me. Maybe some of it but the problem I have the most is the consistency. A couple years ago I tried it and he tells me I didnt mind it at all. Unfortunately, I dont remember. I tried it again about a year ago and I dont know if it was the cum that hit the back of my throat that made me gag or the cum itself. I really would like to be able to do this for him because I know he would LOVE it. If I can do this for him then I am hoping he returns the favor of something that I would really love from him. I want to know what to do to handle the cum. Do you get used to it? Do you have to think about something else? What should I do?
I think you are worrying yourself sick over this and that is not necessary. It's simple, if you cannot stand cum in your mouth, don't let him cum in your mouth. I know you want to please your man, and it's very sweet that you love him so, but he wouldn't want you worrying about this. Men LOVE to get oral and you are giving him oral. When he starts to orgasm, and you pull it out of your mouth and use your hand, his orgasm is not going to stop or be less pleasurable.

No matter what he eats, cum is never going to taste like candy. Don't beat yourself up for not liking the taste. You love him, you love his penis, believe me, that is enough for him!
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I think you are worrying yourself sick over this and that is not necessary. It's simple, if you cannot stand cum in your mouth, don't let him cum in your mouth. I know you want to please your man, and it's very sweet that you love him so, but he wouldn't want you worrying about this. Men LOVE to get oral and you are giving him oral. When he starts to orgasm, and you pull it out of your mouth and use your hand, his orgasm is not going to stop or be less pleasurable.

No matter what he eats, cum is never going to taste like candy. Don't beat yourself up for not liking the taste. You love him, you love his penis, believe me, that is enough for him!

This is pretty much what my husband said about the issue. I tried it again using a peppermint lube to try to make it taste better. I dont think it was the taste. I think it is that he cums a lot and just the way it spits. If it just pored I think it wouldnt matter. But what you said is what he said. And I also am getting something out of this that I really would love to see. I love to watch him masturbate but he doenst like me watching. So when we were talking about me not being able to handle the cum, I asked if when he gets close if he would finish himself on my chest. I cant wait.
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For all of us. In my mind, I always add another line to that...while the sun shines, because the rain clouds arrive without warning.
what does THIS have to do with having a big sticky glob of snot textured cum platter all over in your mouth?
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He should consider himself lucky to have you! You sound like the perfect wife.
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My wife hated my cum. There was just so much of it, she just couldn't handle it all. I didn't blame her. She made me try it once and kissed me with a big mouthful for me to savor and swallow. A little bit is cool, but there was always much too much cum She would stop sucking my **** and jerk me off too, making it shoot all over the place, especially me.
I told her that it didn't matter if she swallowed or not, I just love the feeling of cumming while my **** is still in her mouth. SOLUTION; When I came, she blocked it with her tongue and simply let it fall out of her mouth, while we finished. Then she would get rid of the little bit that remained by kissing me and giving it back to me.
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Careful,

I cannot properly comment without being somwhat graphic (duh I guess)

For me BJs are relatively infrequent, I am so grateful that my wife is making me climax with her mouth that I don’t care if she swallows or even takes it in her mouth or not. I don't think she is crazy about the taste/texture but, does not seem as bothered as many. Personally, I have kissed my wife after climaxing in her mouth and have liked my fingers as well just to understand what the big deal is. I find it to be rather bland but, the consistancy is a little slimy. Having said that the last thing I want to do is making the experience unpleasant for her. I will say she does however, get a really big kick out of making me shoot a big one in her mouth.To her it proves to her that she has done a good job as a big load is indicative of a great orgasm and a job well done. She also says it is a really cool sensation to feel when my penis pulsates/contracts when i ejaculate.

Many times (at my request) when I am just ready to shoot she takes me out of her mouth and will rigorously stroke me with hand and sumulstaniously let the the corona and frenulum rub accross her tounge and lips while she grips/strokes it with her fingers on the other side. In this case the semen never enters her mouth and remains on her cheek/face. She is careful to close her eyes as it stings. I don't intentionally come on her face but, truthfully it happens she doesn't really object. I follow up with a wet, warm washcloth to make clean up easy. Some women may see "cumming on the face" as too porn-ish or may have an ick factor related to semen on the fact but, my wife sees it as quite benign. To me this is encreadibly erotic as i get to see the semen shoot out and she is spared the spit/swallow debate.
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If you push him to the back of your throat and let him cum past your tongue you won't tast it, and you can chase it with tic tacs of a drink of anything sweet.... That is if you want to have him cum in your mouth. Otherwise just stop before he orgasms and leave him dry until he gets the message that you're not going to finish him off if he keeps trying to give you an unwanted surprise.
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