Re: HELP!!! Why Woman Masterbate
seems pretty hostile to tell you that for five years you haven't done it for her. Sure, on one level it is candid, but on another, five years?
She prefers herself getting off to sex with you? In a marriage that is not acceptable.
If this were a man doing that, most responders would be calling the guy snarky names.
She's avoiding intimacy with you, clearly, she has a libido, where is it focused?
Not suggesting she is having an affair, but it is a reasonable question to wonder about.
I agree with you about the comments during sex basically telling you to get it over, are designed to do the following:
1. Tell you she is not liking the sex IN THE MOMENT.
2. Tell you to get off me, I'm so done with this chore.
3. Tell you , you're not her hero and cannot be. You don't satisfy her sexually.
4. Interrupt your pleasure making it impossible to really be satisfied in the moment.
She's very hostile to you. Why?
BTW, not against masturbation, every one does it. The context here is instead of enjoying relations with you.
Last edited by michzz; 03-04-2009 at 01:32 PM.
Reason: added a thought