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View Poll Results: How often do men's sex drives kick in
1+ times a day 30 46.15%
4-6 times a week 20 30.77%
1-3 times a week 11 16.92%
1-3 times a month 2 3.08%
1-11 times a year 2 3.08%
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Old 04-13-2012, 09:44 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Men, how often does your sex drive kick in (not just the desire for a stress release, but a real drive to have sex with your wife)?

Wives, how often does your husband show you his sex drive is fired up?
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Old 04-13-2012, 09:50 PM   #2 (permalink)
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It doesn`t "kick in".

It`s just always there.
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Old 04-13-2012, 09:54 PM   #3 (permalink)
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My H's sex drive is always there...he's always keen. Can't recall ever being turned down.

Heck it's not even safe to bend over without him offering me 'support' LOL!
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Old 04-13-2012, 09:56 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Oh I can have sex just about anytime (maybe not awakened from a deep sleep). For me though there's this drive were you just gotta go find your wife... right... now.

Lol waiwera, yeah my wife was a dancer for years, so she bends over at the waist. Good gracious talk about an invitation to fire me up!
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As a man ages his sex drive decreases...This can start as early as his late 20's....This is where nature messes with the sexes...When this happens, it is time for the wife/partner to pick up the slack...Time for her to be the "come and get me" tease and go to bed naked......Time to let him know what a hot stud that he still is....Baby him...Praise his bedroom style...Use some hot erotic words of lust to bring him on....There are so many ways to do this and it is so darn much fun....

We are older, yet I have noticed the differene after he has had hot sex...I have found like a woman feels, that it too, makes him feel so young....Take care...
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As I read somewhere here, I can be suffereing from a gunshot wound and as long as the loss of blood has been stopped, I'm good to go!
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As I read somewhere here, I can be suffereing from a gunshot wound and as long as the loss of blood has been stopped, I'm good to go!
Preach on brother!
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I don't want to give too much information lest I be accused of bragging.

Let's just say that its a good thing Morrigan is quick and agile else she would never leave the bedroom. Come to think of it she's never in a hurry to leave the bedroom anyway.

Damn, there I went and did it. Bragging again.
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As I read somewhere here, I can be suffereing from a gunshot wound and as long as the loss of blood has been stopped, I'm good to go!
I don't know how many times I've told my wife "I'm not THAT sick!"

Just because I might not have the energy doesn't mean she can't be on top!
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I don't know how many times I've told my wife "I'm not THAT sick!"

Just because I might not have the energy doesn't mean she can't be on top!
Yup, and when we're both tired....well that's why I installed the swing.
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Yup, and when we're both tired....well that's why I installed the swing.
Yeah, but if the neighbors saw us using the kids swing....
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As a man ages his sex drive decreases.

When this happens, it is time for the wife/partner to pick up the slack
Absolutely!!! That's where we are. He doesn't like it as it means he's getting older to which I tell him lovingly to shut up and let me take charge.

I've got enough drive for both of us. LOL
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Once after a marathon weekend I told her I couldn't do it anymore. She said, "You just need a helping hand" LOL and on we went. I married her. Now 18 years later I get zilch.
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my drive is still strong. I am pounding it almost daily. Maybe an anxiety release?
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I don't know if it's normal but I seem to have two types of drives. One is something like a stress release drive... it's pretty mild and I can take it or leave it. The other is really strong and it just fills me with passion and it's great if my wife is available and able, otherwise it just takes a lot of effort to ignore... or I just self satisfy.
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