04-15-2012, 12:03 AM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Impotence - Question for anyone else suffering similarly
I have suffered from impotence for quite awhile now. I am in my late 30's and have been to the doctor, urologists, the whole line of them. I have had testosterone tests, tried Viagra, Cialis, etc. While I can gain some function from the drugs I am never totally hard anymore. The doctors have been unable to find a cause for that. My post is not necessarily so much about that part though.
Due to my situation my wife has gotten frustrated over time. She doesn't bring it up but it is obvious and while oral and toys are great it isn't replacing the real thing. I had asked her in the past if she wanted to try someone else and at the time was rebuffed. As time has gone on though it's been discussed in kind of a fantasy type situation. However, the last time we discussed it while playing I asked if she really wanted it and she said yes. I know she was hot at the time and was a bit embarrassed. After the fact though she did admit she thought about it and how many times it would be nice. I honestly didn't feel betrayed or anything, I understood actually and want her to have that pleasure.
Is there any other men out there in a similar situation who have a wife in need this way and how did you handle it?