Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
I note a distinct double standard here. When the man loves and talks about sex, he is some sort of controlling sex fiend. When the women talk about sex, it's cute. Don't get me wrong, I want the ladies to keep talking about it. But folks, don't start hating on me because I love to talk about it too. For many of the same reasons these nice ladies like to talk about it. I enjoy it and it's fun.
I think too, being anonymous on here makes it easier to talk about certain things. My friends don't know most of my sexlife unless they ask regarding their own issues, but they also know my husband so it would be awkward when they saw him and i don't want my friends knowing what a stud my man is
My wife works with two women who are the higher drive person and aren't shy in sharing it with her. I tell her she should share too... but she says that she couldn't be comfortable with me around them after that.
It's ok for a TV commercial to show some woman with massive ta-ta's dripping burger sauce down her cleavage and licking her lips like she just got dessert first but it's not ok to talk about sex?
Think about all the things openly shown on TV. Tampons, maxi pads, lingerie, jock itch and hemorrhoid cream, condoms, vibrators, sex lubricant, bras, ect..........but then, shhhhhhhhh....don't say sex, it's naughty.
I try to think of what my grandfather would say about the commercials now. He got irate at the early 80's commercials, I can't imagine him watching them now.
And much of the time, while I'm chatting on here, and doing other things intermittently, hubs will interupt me or I'll seek him out and we'll get busy Then I come back and chat some more while folding laundry.
Like this morning Sex doesn't have to always be flowers and 2 hours. We have children and a house and a full time job. But we still love sex!
I'm ready to put the baby down now and go seduce him as he works on the car.
So, slap my ass and call me a freak, but I enjoy sex with my husband. Oh the humanity.