Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
__________________ The first question should always be, "If it's that bad, why are you still there?
OK, you screwed up, it happens. Now apologize. But apologize just once. Make it loud, clear, short, to the point, and directly to those you trespassed against. Then move on.
Fellas what do you like when your partner gives you a BJ?
more than anything, by far, I love it that she loves it. There's lots of different "techniques" that one can develop and variety is the spice of life and all that. But in the end, what makes it incredibly hot for me is that it's hot for her.
Get it very wet, then circle it with just the thumb and forefinger, stroke up and down while doing everything to just the head and first inch of the shaft....
Doesn't take long that way, and she has me ready to explode.
I tend to believe men are very responsive to the hand, tongue, all at the same time sensation. There's gotta be movement as well....my ex used to be quite responsive, say dirty things to me while I was down there.
The biggest turn on is how much the person responds....not that i know anymore..blahhhhh
Various positions brings a different vibe/mood as to assertion of dominance, role-play, erotic, bringing other elements into the mix.
Kneeling, him laying down, him straddling me, my head hanging off the side of the bed with him standing..etc.
I notice his motion, his intensity, surging, moaning, what kind of mood he's in. Whether it's more dominant/selfish (not in a bad way!), or whether his focus shifts more to me.
This isn't necessarily a bj technique but I have teased him before, with him laying down, and just hovering over the tip with my mouth, almost barely touching him. It drove him nuts until he couldn't take it anymore (again, not in a bad way!)