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Old 04-18-2012, 02:15 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Time to spice things up I want to know...

Fellas what do you like when your partner gives you a BJ?

Ladies what do you notice him responding to when you give your partner a BJ?

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Old 04-18-2012, 02:29 PM   #2 (permalink)
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The "show" is just as important as the sensations.

Some talking, some noise, all help me feel connected to her.







and don't forget the boys down below.
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The "show" is just as important as the sensations.

Some talking, some noise, all help me feel connected to her.







and don't forget the boys down below.
Tongue work as well, the extra stimulation can be amazing.
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Old 04-18-2012, 02:45 PM   #4 (permalink)
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My husband likes to have some eye contact during.
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Wanting to be there is a great start...
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Fellas what do you like when your partner gives you a BJ?
more than anything, by far, I love it that she loves it. There's lots of different "techniques" that one can develop and variety is the spice of life and all that. But in the end, what makes it incredibly hot for me is that it's hot for her.
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Get it very wet, then circle it with just the thumb and forefinger, stroke up and down while doing everything to just the head and first inch of the shaft....

Doesn't take long that way, and she has me ready to explode.
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i like it chewed on a little with the molars
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i like it chewed on a little with the molars
Ouch... not me, keep them chompers away please. Matter of taste I guess.
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i like it chewed on a little with the molars
I thought there was some unwritten rule that FORBADE any mention of teeth in a BJ thread...now we find someone who likes a bit of toothy action

You men are so confusing
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I thought there was some unwritten rule that FORBADE any mention of teeth in a BJ thread...now we find someone who likes a bit of toothy action

You men are so confusing
I had an aunt that liked raw hamburger...

Perhaps that's why my uncle always had a look of fear in his eye?
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I tend to believe men are very responsive to the hand, tongue, all at the same time sensation. There's gotta be movement as well....my ex used to be quite responsive, say dirty things to me while I was down there.

The biggest turn on is how much the person responds....not that i know anymore..blahhhhh
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Various positions brings a different vibe/mood as to assertion of dominance, role-play, erotic, bringing other elements into the mix.

Kneeling, him laying down, him straddling me, my head hanging off the side of the bed with him standing..etc.

I notice his motion, his intensity, surging, moaning, what kind of mood he's in. Whether it's more dominant/selfish (not in a bad way!), or whether his focus shifts more to me.

This isn't necessarily a bj technique but I have teased him before, with him laying down, and just hovering over the tip with my mouth, almost barely touching him. It drove him nuts until he couldn't take it anymore (again, not in a bad way!)
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I thought there was some unwritten rule that FORBADE any mention of teeth in a BJ thread...now we find someone who likes a bit of toothy action

You men are so confusing
only with the back molars.
no front teeth chewing or scraping.
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I tend to believe men are very responsive to the hand, tongue, all at the same time sensation.
again i guess im different.
if your going to put your mouth on it, thats all i want
'look ma, no hands'

besides, not big enough for both. :/
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