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My husband wants to be seduced. He LIKES and NEEDS it. As far as what I do it varies and he's game for all it. I just use my imagination and try to make sure to change it up so it doesn't get boring or predictable.
I think when things are clicking in my life, accomplishing things, having fun... then life itself is foreplay.
Without foreplay I definitely can't come out and play, when I was younger and things were not clicking I didn't need much coaxing, but nowadays I seem to need something to light my fire, once its burning everything clicks again...
Sometimes yes and sometimes no. We both may just want our craving satiated. Other times, she'll tease me all day (i.e. saturday morning -sat evening) while we're going about business (meals, cleaning, errands etc). Anticipation can do wonders.
Do I want foreplay...hell yeah. It certainly makes things a lot more fun.
As to what we do for foreplay. I consider every look, every touch, every word to be foreplay. Well, with the exception of he telling me the toilet is clogged again. But my imagination can even work with that if need be.