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Old 04-19-2012, 03:09 PM   #1 (permalink)
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For reasons which I shall disclose later I am unable tp pregnate my wife. Adoption is one option but she wants to give birth. I have sympathy for her since I am the one not able to biologically father a child.

She has decided to take insemination from a friend of ours. She will take penetration from him if need be she says.

What will be the long term implications of such an action , will you be kind enough to share your thoughts.

Many thanks.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:12 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I think she just want some strange a$$

theres a new thing call artifical insemination (test tube baby)

don't think I would be up for what she is sugestion.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:14 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Why can't you go to sperm bank ? Having another guy f1ck her isn't insemination, its cheating . It also means he will always be around as the father and the man your wife was/is sleeping with.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:18 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I'd say artificial insemination or no go. Your wife having sex with another man is not a good idea imo at all.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:20 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Hi

For reasons which I shall disclose later I am unable tp pregnate my wife. Adoption is one option but she wants to give birth. I have sympathy for her since I am the one not able to biologically father a child.

She has decided to take insemination from a friend of ours. She will take penetration from him if need be she says.

What will be the long term implications of such an action , will you be kind enough to share your thoughts.

Many thanks.
I personally wouldn't do known donor insemination. The only exception would be my partner's friend, who I adore. He has AIDS, which would require sperm washing at a fertility clinic. I just think he's a great guy and think he might enjoy being a dad and seeing his genes passed on before he dies. However, my partner and I are probably never going to have anymore kids, so we've only talked about it in a theoretical, half-joking sorta way.

If we did decide to have one, we'd likely go the unknown donor sperm route. This is typically the safer option for your family, especially in a legal sense. A known donor - especially a close family friend - opens the door for legal problems down the road. Depending on where you live, this guy could successfully be deemed the legal father if he really pursued the issue in court. Even if it never goes that far, he could feel justified in butting into your parenting decisions.

And "she will take penetration from him if need be"? Um, why? That's just sort of odd and unnecessary. It's called a turkey baster. Use it lol.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:21 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Sperm Bank should be only consideration

They screen their donors pretty and an added benefit is the donor doesn't have to stick hi d*ck in your wife.

Sheesh!
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:23 PM   #7 (permalink)
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She has decided to take insemination from a friend of ours. She will take penetration from him if need be she says.

What will be the long term implications of such an action , will you be kind enough to share your thoughts.

Many thanks.
The short term implications are that your wife has no problem being screwed by your friend even though there are alternatives.

Whether or not that really has anything to do with her wanting to give birth is not what your asking so let's go to the long term implications.

Even if there's no foul play here (and I strongly suspect there is), you are going to hang out with a guy who screwed your wife and fathered your child and you're going to be ok with that?

I sure wouldn't be.
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Even if you work around the moral and social issues, there is still lots of legal issues that need to be looked at.
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Having a friend's baby can open a whole can of worms.

Having sex with said friend to get that baby is creepy!

Get a turkey baster.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:32 PM   #10 (permalink)
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When I think of this case I can't help but remember this article I read once from Germany (similar story):
Comedians World: Hired to Impregnate Neighbor's Beauty Queen Wife; Fails after 72 "Sessions". Movie Worthy?

Sadly I think this legend might be true... either way yeah... just messed up.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:34 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Your wife "deciding" to do this is completely unacceptable... that she could even be so willing to do something so humiliating and degrading to you is reprehensible. Did she even open up the dialogue to give you a say in the matter???

She attacked your manhood and used it against you by taking the delicate fragility of your infertility and used it as ammunition against you to suggest justification for infidelity. This is disgusting and immoral. No loving spouse would ever suggest putting their spouse in such a cruel disposition.

She sounds heartless.
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When I think of this case I can't help but remember this article I read once from Germany (similar story):
Comedians World: Hired to Impregnate Neighbor's Beauty Queen Wife; Fails after 72 "Sessions". Movie Worthy?

Sadly I think this legend might be true... either way yeah... just messed up.
LOL truth is stranger than fiction!
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Get a turkey baster.
How would that work, I wonder?

Friend goes into bathroom with a container, jacks off into the container, sucks it up with a turkey baster, runs out of the bathroom, hands baster to wife who runs into bathroom sticks into her vj and squeezes the bulb until it's empty?

That would take a lot of practice, at which point you could almost say the wife and friend would be "masterbasters".
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It works.
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Old 04-19-2012, 03:48 PM   #15 (permalink)
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If someone came to me and said "my wife wants you to give her sperm so we can have a baby" I'd probably do it on 2 conditons

1- Some sort of legal form signed so she can't go after me to be the father for support issues at some later date.

2- If she's a hottie, she has to give my sperm the taste test, right from the spigot.

It's only fair.
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