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I was wondering what kind of toys everyone likes. We have the usual vibrator and dildo, but is there anything out there a little different that people like? What about toys for guys, and do women like to have a toy for their man?
I have investigated the WeVibe a bit. I can't remember who but another poster in a previous thread made a comment that she and her husband loved it. I just haven't gotten up the gumption to purchase one and try it out...to scared of disappointment.
We have toys. Vibrators, dildos, etc. Have had fun with them all.
Two favorites...
1. Simple mini-vibrator. Laying in a hot bubble bath together, facing each other, and I'll get her "warmed up" then hand her the vibrator and make her take care of herself as I watch. What an incredible turn on for us both.
2. Remote controlled egg. A real favorite but used in moderation. I'll put the egg in her before we go out to dinner, and the remote goes into my pocket. Hit the remote at a few unexpected times on the drive over. Hit it again when the hot waiter guy (or girl) comes out and is in the process of taking her order. Good for a laugh or two after they leave, and gets her started. Hit it for longer periods as we're getting more comfortable and turned on. Then, when the time is right, towards the end of dinner and after a couple glasses of wine or martinis, turn it on and leave it on until she orgasms. The last couple times we did this, we were outside, in a curtain enclosed cabana, with other couples eating and conversing no more than 4 feet away. Finally turned it on, left it on, then hugged, held, and softly kissed her until she had some incredible orgasms. Could not have appeared as much more than a couple in love and being close to outside observers, but the thought of what was happening was an incredible turn on for her (and me).
I could give you a ton of reccomendations here....
For her: You gotta try the tongue vibrator, Hitichi, a jack rabbit, or one of those newer water proof completely sealed Lelo vibrators. *whisper* make that last one a gift.
For him: There is no sex toy greater than a Fleshlight... you gotta try both the lotus sleeve and the forbidden anal sleeve.
I prefer to O during sex, I don't need sex toys. I don't mind them however if my partner wanted to use them on me during, that would be fine. Posted via Mobile Device
We love sensation play. We keep goodies like a feather tickler, a wartenberg pinwheel, a teensy iron ball flogger (er, for wrapping or draping, not actual flogging), etc.
If you don't like the "rougher" sounding stuff, you could give jelly toys a try. We invested in a jelly-like glove with little tentacly feelers on it, and a jelly sleeve for him that's ridged inside. Good times.
Tell, me what could I do with bubble bath, a flyswatter and a box of Rice Krispies?
C'mon give me a hard one.
You push her breasts together and pour a little Rice Krispies and milk in her cleavage then enjoy. Great pre sex snack! "But won't it leak" - of course a little milk will drip out but cleaning it up hands free is all part of the fun.
You use the bubble bath with a little water to create a slippery fun mess on the kitchen floor, but first wiping away any soap from your privates because it will cause a yeast infection. I'd go with vegetable glycerine instead just to err of the safe side.
And the flyswatter is a more aerodynamic spanking paddle, if not insertable sex toy depending on the handle. This can be substituted for a clean spatula instead.
I have investigated the WeVibe a bit. I can't remember who but another poster in a previous thread made a comment that she and her husband loved it. I just haven't gotten up the gumption to purchase one and try it out...to scared of disappointment.
lemme go check... I just got a WeVibe 3 and I am utterly astonished at how versatile the darned thing is. It's one of the best new designs I've ever seen. For her, it's mostly vibrating things.
For me, I already have the best sex toy ever... her.
"Tell, me what could I do with bubble bath, a flyswatter and a box of Rice Krispies?"
LOL. I'd get my second banning if I answered that. Makes me think I need to go put Rice Krispies on the shopping list though.
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" - of course a little milk will drip out but cleaning it up hands free is all part of the fun.
