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Any legit reviews or opinions on the fleshlight? My birthday is coming up next week and wife and I have talked a little about possibly buying one. Any insight would be helpful. Tips and ideas of all the possibilities of play would be cool to hear as well! Posted via Mobile Device
If your wife is creative, it can be fun I guess. She can hold it and **** you with it while she sits on your face. She can hold it between her legs and you can jump back and forth from her to it, just to feel what it's like to get different sensations. You can use it yourself, but I had a hard time holding it and getting turned on. I'd prefer it as a couple tool, but we maybe used it twice and quit.
As far as feeling goes? It feels close to a vagina if lubed right (more like anal to me, because mine was tight and smooth -- but you can get different inside textures) but if you keep the back cap on tight (no air) it will suck hard. I mean, endless friction.
It would be like my husband handing me a dildo that does all my daily chores, gives me mani/pedis and rubs my back on command. Wtf? He'd be a stupid man to do so.
I agree that the fleshlight is kind of creepy and probably for guys who aren't getting sex. But then I wonder. Why is it that way? Why is it weird that a married guy would use one of these? Is it also weird and creepy that a woman use a dildo, perhaps with her husband? There seems to be a bit of a double standard.
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