05-07-2012, 10:20 AM
Join Date: Jun 2009
| | Re: My wife and my Fetish
Been through this one myself running man! My wife had gained a bunch of weight after a baby and was self conscious.
So many women think of heels as hookerish. If you want her to wear some shoes start with a set of really low heels (not 5 inchers) that she could wear in public no problem. The each month (and take your time here) try to step it up a notch, either a bit of higher heel, or a bit more scandalous design.
If you can get her to, try to have her look through a shoe website like zappos (not a sex toy site) and ask her exactly what makes a shoe "wh0rey" it could be the height, design, or both.
As for the stockings, I can rarely convince my wife to wear them, but when she was heavier I bought them plus size so they would not squeeze her thighs too much and make her self conscious. For my wife she hates wearing them because they are hot in bed, not because they are risque.
I also found a cool trick. My wife gets cold in winter and I love knee and thigh high socks.
So i bought her some Boggs boots on amazon as a gift this winter, then I bought her some american apparel knee and thigh high socks to go with them and some smartwool knee highs. Win, win.
Also we found some knee high leather boots that had NO heel, but we also found some awesome leggings and tights that go with them and a casual dress, comprimise I know, but some of the new leggings are pretty hot.
Hope it helps!