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Old 03-17-2009, 01:19 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My wife has a strange and unique problem.

When she was a child, she got braces at a young age, she was a Experimental child for her Orthodontits (sp?) anyway she had quite afew teeth removed, so her teeth, fit her mouth, nowadays, they crack the palate and expand the mouth to meet the teeth.

Anyway, my wife is a tiny woman (4'11") she has a tiny mouth to meet her body.

Anyway, she has a very difficult time with giving Oral, becuase basically she can only fit my head in her mouth, she has bought books on how to do this better, but she will always gag. I told her she doesn't have to go crazy over it, maybe 5-10 min then move on to regular sex. But I can tell she is self concious of this issue.

So I am wondering, do any of you other woman have this issue where you constantly gag? If you ahd this in the past, how did you get over it? any Techniques? Suggestions?
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Old 03-17-2009, 02:49 AM   #2 (permalink)
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i tend to gag when im going for the full hit. if i ever felt uncomfortable , i'd stop.
if i do ot for long periods, mouth tends to ache.
the suggestion is, just take your time and relax more. like you say dont go mad. go back and fore from sex to oral.
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She needs to use her tongue more, that's all. Giving head isn't just about the penis being in the mouth, there's so much more to it!
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Old 03-17-2009, 02:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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the only time I gag is when I do like justean, and take his whole penis in my mouth down to the bottom. it's not huge, but not tiny either, so he's long enough that it's hard to get it all the way in my mouth, since when I do, it touches the back of my throat.

haha... this is wayyyyy TMI.. ;-)

I don't have a tiny mouth though, so that's not a prob. I do a lot of tounge work, like blue said. So maybe that could work for you two, since she's got a smaller mouth?
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the only time I gag is when I do like justean, and take his whole penis in my mouth down to the bottom. it's not huge, but not tiny either, so he's long enough that it's hard to get it all the way in my mouth, since when I do, it touches the back of my throat.

haha... this is wayyyyy TMI.. ;-)

I don't have a tiny mouth though, so that's not a prob. I do a lot of tounge work, like blue said. So maybe that could work for you two, since she's got a smaller mouth?
sorry marina but my H is big
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sorry marina but my H is big
Well aren't you a lucky gal!
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oh well, maybe mine is too? I dont' know, what is considered big?
I guess it's about 7-8 inches when erect. that's enough for me! LOL...
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oh well, maybe mine is too? I dont' know, what is considered big?
I guess it's about 7-8 inches when erect. that's enough for me! LOL...
yeh i suppose your right, quality over quantity.
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oh well, maybe mine is too? I dont' know, what is considered big?
I guess it's about 7-8 inches when erect. that's enough for me! LOL...
In that case, I'm assuming you have to swallow in order to get past your gag reflex when taking it all in?
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swallow as in, when he finishes? no way, can't do it, tried it, just can't handle it, almost threw up on him lol....
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swallow as in, when he finishes? no way, can't do it, tried it, just can't handle it, almost threw up on him lol....
No, I am referring to the deep throat technique... It's not for everyone.
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swallow as in, when he finishes? no way, can't do it, tried it, just can't handle it, almost threw up on him lol....
im in agreeance with marina - the bl**dy stuff is disgusting.
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im in agreeance with marina - the bl**dy stuff is disgusting.
I managed to sell my wife on the health benefits - (with a straight face)

Unfortunately practising semen retention does tend to concentrate the zinc to very high levels - she says it's like liquid metal. "Terminator 2" eat your heart out.
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ewwww LOL...
yeah, my hubby tried that when we were dating, he told me if he ate a bunch of something, such as coffee flavored ice cream, that his stuff would taste like whatever he ate... and asked me what flavor I liked LOL..

I told him where he could take it. It wasn't a deal breaker for him, and he hasn't asked me to do it, since I tried once and couldn't do it. He's my doll. doesn't complain about that part.
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But seriously though, it is full of proteins, hormones and minerals. As I only cum once per month, I can't bear the thought of it being wasted!
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