If a husband does his 'bit' in the house, tells his wife she looks good, gives her the massages etc...is a true 'team player' in the marriage....
....has reasonable sexual expectations - ie. sex 2-3 times a week - that includes both giving and receiving oral sex.....
BUT is left sexually unsatisfied and unfulfilled, then he is far more likely to 'wander'. That includes not getting what all men LOVE.... oral!
If you are thirsty and someone offers you a drink.....?
You die if you don't drink water, you won't die if you don't get a bj. If a man is having sex 3 times a week and still contemplates cheating then a is a service.
That is what you are saying right? You don't need to go out looking for a mouth, you have a convenient service worker right in reach, your wife.
You understand what you are saying poisons the attitude of women towards bj, don't you? It is difficult to believe that bj have anything to do with love when a woman hears this stuff.
The threat to cheat is so common but has not seemed to coerce woman to give them. It is still a problem. Why do you think that is so?
What you are saying is that a bj is more important than humiliating your wife and the stability of your children. Do you think that a woman would put herself in a position of servicing her husband just to pay him off for fidelity? Why not get divorced and get all the bj you want. At lest be honest about what you are.
BTW, does that work in your relationship? Maybe you have the answer to the bj dilemma. Please give details of your methods of dealing with female reluctance.
I assume you get your wife to give you bj on demand? What do your say? "Give me a bj or I will get one someplace else" And your wife gives you an enthusiastic bj and you are actually able to accept it and enjoy it?
How is it possible? You would have to think of her in a service capacity. Certainly you don't view her with any love or concern.
I really don't think you should even be in a relationship. You need to go to prostitutes and/or have pick up woman in clubs and get bj in an alley with them. That would at lest put woman where you want them - things for your pleasure.