sex with the lights off

Shiksa · 05-09-2012, 10:28 PM

I prefer lights. Like others, I'm beyond worrying about body image. c-section scars, stretch marks, they make me proud.

2nd_t!me iz_best · 05-09-2012, 10:33 PM

i can go with the lights off, but then i need me a miners hat. or a flashlight. like to see what im getting into when im down there.

nxs450 · 05-10-2012, 02:30 AM

Little tea lites (candles) all around the room is nice. Still wanting to try the red lite bulb, and black lights sound cool!

Mrs.K · 05-11-2012, 10:25 AM

We have a dimmer on the overhead light so I usually just turn it down a bit.

cloudwithleggs · 05-18-2012, 01:00 PM

Mmmm sex in front of an open fire in winter

KissKiss · 05-18-2012, 04:16 PM

Lights on, always.
There is no point being shy about your body when you are making love with someone who has promised to spend the rest of their life with you.
Nobody is perfect, we all have out flaws, but clearly if they're having sex with you they obviously find you highly attractive.
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waiwera · 05-18-2012, 05:59 PM

Probably at least half of our sex is morning sex. So half light.

At night we use the light in our ensuite bathroom...it give a nice soft light. I love candles but I'm a bit paranoid, we've fallen asleep after sex with candles burning. So we use them 'carefully'.

But we definitely like to be able to see each other....

OldGirl · 05-18-2012, 07:02 PM

We use a red light bulb. Gives everything a nice soft glow

2nd_t!me iz_best · 05-18-2012, 07:12 PM

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We use a red light bulb. Gives everything a nice soft glow

what color does thyatm make pink look like ?

OldGirl · 05-18-2012, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by 2nd_t!me iz_best

what color does thyatm make pink look like ?

I'm too busy to notice.

2nd_t!me iz_best · 05-18-2012, 07:42 PM

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I'm too busy to notice.

well thats a good thing then

Dr. Rockstar · 05-21-2012, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Pandakiss

its never dark. we have daytime activitys, but at nite, the tv is always on. we have had a tv for 16/17 years now.

the only light i hate is the over head..after 2/3 am, i just want it off. husband likes the overhead or the floor lamp on when he filming, other than that....

its never dark. nicktoons is sooo bright, boomerang is bright, science channel is darker, cartoon network [adultswim], depends on the show.

and now we have LED color changing lights, so we just pick whatever color we feel at the time.

Sex with the TV on? REALLY?!? How do you do it? The distraction would drive me nuts!

"Ooh, baby, do it to me! Touch me right--Oh, hey! Conan's on!"

Hunger · 05-21-2012, 02:20 PM

Always lights on.

Dollystanford · 05-22-2012, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Dr. Rockstar

Sex with the TV on? REALLY?!? How do you do it? The distraction would drive me nuts!

"Ooh, baby, do it to me! Touch me right--Oh, hey! Conan's on!"

ha ha my H used to have the TV on all the time before bed and we'd start and I'd have to get him to roll off to find the remote and turn it down cos it would be putting me off

Dr. Rockstar · 05-22-2012, 04:12 PM

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ha ha my H used to have the TV on all the time before bed and we'd start and I'd have to get him to roll off to find the remote and turn it down cos it would be putting me off

I suppose you're right. I remember having a REALLY intense, two-hour make-out session in front of the menu screen of the movie, "Gladiator."