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Just for the record on my behalf I am always willing to assist the woman in masturbating during sex and always do, so that once we are all done we BOTH have achieved a niiiiice orgasim. I have heard of a lot of men who just do the *wham-bam-thank ya mam* thing everytime, which leaves the woman feeling left out and unsatisfied. Very few women that I know achieve an orgasim through simple penetration from their man, not unless he has a 14 inch monster that vibrates during sex - lol.
I had that problem of never being able to orgasm in my previous relationship. Some how I got lucky bc ever since I have been with my now husband I orgasm at least twice everytime. It is amazing. Although I have never been with a 14inch vibrating monster lol.
Why do you masturbate Marvel? Posted via Mobile Device
Why odd?
Some of us women find men and their O's a bit of a mystery... when they scan brains during an O different parts of the brain get active in men and women... so it makes sense that we feel them differently..well it does to me anyway!
I get that both sexes 'feel' a yumminess of a O but I've read that men get a build up of semen and that after a few days they actually feel a 'pressure' that feels relieved after an ejaculation. Women don't build up any fluids... no feeling of a relief of pressure.
Is this not right??
On a side note: If I EVER find a genie in a bottle I'm going to wish for me and H to swap places for a day... i'd shag him silly.
I'd love to know what an O feels like to a man.
Why odd?
Some of us women find men and their O's a bit of a mystery... when they scan brains during an O different parts of the brain get active in men and women... so it makes sense that we feel them differently..well it does to me anyway!
I get that both sexes 'feel' a yumminess of a O but I've read that men get a build up of semen and that after a few days they actually feel a 'pressure' that feels relieved after an ejaculation. Women don't build up any fluids... no feeling of a relief of pressure.
Is this not right??
On a side note: If I EVER find a genie in a bottle I'm going to wish for me and H to swap places for a day... i'd shag him silly.
I'd love to know what an O feels like to a man.
I would love to have a penis for a day, I wouldnt have to sit down to pee in a nasty bathroom, I could cum in about 5min and I would love to know what a cum feels like for a man!
I would love to have a penis for a day, I wouldnt have to sit down to pee in a nasty bathroom, I could cum in about 5min and I would love to know what a cum feels like for a man!
You are correct on that Cinimini, because if women were able to just quickly get horny anywhere and everywhere and achieve the awesome oozing feeling that we get...........the world would be a much much better place for everyone.
So my husband and I are apart once again because of the military. I dont mind him masterbating. Quite frankly I prefer that he does if he needs too. We were having a converstion after phone sex about the reasoning behind masterbation. So I am wondering... Do you masterbate to release the pressure or to get the feeling during?
lots of reasons!
... because it feels awesome.. relieves stress.. requires no no work from you, you have complete control over the sensation and and go as quickly or as slowly as you want without worrying about someone else's needs..
I try to not to deplete all my sexual vitality too often so I can save it for my wife, but sometimes I just can't resist myself... I'm really good.
Just for the record on my behalf I am always willing to assist the woman in masturbating during sex and always do, so that once we are all done we BOTH have achieved a niiiiice orgasim. I have heard of a lot of men who just do the *wham-bam-thank ya mam* thing everytime, which leaves the woman feeling left out and unsatisfied. Very few women that I know achieve an orgasim through simple penetration from their man, not unless he has a 14 inch monster that vibrates during sex - lol.
You don't need a 14" monster to give a women a orgasm. 5" will do if the women is comfortable with her self, has learned how to orgasm through intercourse, partners know each others bodies, very orgasmic, ect. ect. Just saying there are a lot of reasons a women can, or can't. But a lot of women can orgasm through intercourse. My wife has 5 times before in one love making session. I don't think I have it in me anymore though to make that happen again, but 1 to 2 times is the norm.
Some women just can't, some haven't figured it out yet for various reasons, and some are just naturals. But size isn't the reason for most women. There may be a few that need a little more, but there again that isn't the norm for those that can.
So that I dont start wanting other men. I notice if it has been a long time that I want it so much more. I dont like even thinking about another man because I used to be able to have sex with someone just to get off and not think twice about feelings. Getting myself off is nothing like a MAN doing it for me. Every since my husband and I dated and later got intimate he showed me that there is more to sex then just feeling better. I would prefer not going back to the old me.
You are so on the right track, and your husband seems to be a fairly man, also!
I've had prostatitis so I will masturbate to release if I feel pressure.
Let me list off a few reasons why men mastubate:
Boredom. Man, nothing good is on tv..... aw heck, maybe something better will be on after I rub one off.
Procrastination. I'd definitely rather rub one off then mow the yard.
Pop up ads. I was trying to do some work and went to google to research. I ended up at a website that was a bit suspect and for some reason get a pop up ad with a lady dancing. Her boobies jiggled. Aw heck, I will get so much more work done after I rub one off.
Good sex. My god, I can't believe my wife just asked me to cum in her face. Then she took her hand and used it as a faceshield wiper and licked it off her fingers. Now that was GOOD sex. Maybe she wants to... oh dangit she is sleeping. Let me sneak downstairs and rub one off so I can quit thinking about how well she just f**ked me.
Home alone. Well, the kids are at school, the wife just left for work..... ah heck, let me rub one out before I get up and get ready for work. My clothes will fit much better with that extra weight off me.
Anger. I cannot believe that f**kin woman just told me she hates my guts....... grrrrrrrr let me rub one out and then I will show her.
Happiness. What a beautiful day. Nothing could make this day better.... except maybe a quick nut. Let me rub one off real fast so I can enjoy the rest of the day with a clear head.
Excitement. I just got a raise!!!!! Let me rub one out and celebrate!
Depression. Oh god, the world hates me. Noone likes me. Let me rub one out and go to bed.
You don't need a 14" monster to give a women a orgasm. 5" will do if the women is comfortable with her self, has learned how to orgasm through intercourse, partners know each others bodies, very orgasmic, ect. ect. Just saying there are a lot of reasons a women can, or can't. But a lot of women can orgasm through intercourse. My wife has 5 times before in one love making session. I don't think I have it in me anymore though to make that happen again, but 1 to 2 times is the norm.
Some women just can't, some haven't figured it out yet for various reasons, and some are just naturals. But size isn't the reason for most women. There may be a few that need a little more, but there again that isn't the norm for those that can.
Flipping through the channels a few weeks ago I stopped on The View for a minute and they were talking about the "Big O" for women; and Whoopi Goldberg was saying something like "if you think that just doing it gives us the same great pleasure or takes us there - you're wrong, because fellas you got to GO TO WORK on us ladies to make that happen or you're fooling yourselves". And that was just a quote from Whoopi that day, but I have not only heard that from her just then but from many many other women from all walks of life over the years, including my wife and others that I've dated in my life as well.
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It is amazing. Although I have never been with a 14inch vibrating monster lol. 
I would love to have a penis for a day, I wouldnt have to sit down to pee in a nasty bathroom, I could cum in about 5min and I would love to know what a cum feels like for a man!
