Marvel212

So my husband and I are apart once again because of the military. I dont mind him masterbating. Quite frankly I prefer that he does if he needs too. We were having a converstion after phone sex about the reasoning behind masterbation. So I am wondering... Do you masterbate to release the pressure or to get the feeling during?

WorkingOnMe

The feeling during.

romantic_guy

Yes.

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discouraged1

Both but mostly the feeling...

Browncoat

The feeling... but sometimes also because I have the urge and my wife isn't available.

Middle of Everything

Both.

Silly Husband

The feeling during is o.k. but it's the feeling at the end that I'm after!

I've never felt pressure. Maybe I'm not waiting long enough in between?

Cee Paul

It just takes me to a place of euphoria & feels great and is the 2nd best feeling in the world behind actually having sex with a woman!

michzz

Both.

And finally I can sleep without craving denied.

Ben Connedfussed

Both... the yearn for the feeling, and relieving the pressure.

Nicbrownn80

Depends on the time.

tacoma

It's an odd question.

Why do you masturbate Marvel?
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Marvel212

I mostly do it with him so that I'm not tempted to look else were while we are apart. Plus I love helping even we are so far apart.

Marvel212

So that I dont start wanting other men. I notice if it has been a long time that I want it so much more. I dont like even thinking about another man because I used to be able to have sex with someone just to get off and not think twice about feelings. Getting myself off is nothing like a MAN doing it for me. Every since my husband and I dated and later got intimate he showed me that there is more to sex then just feeling better. I would prefer not going back to the old me.

Cee Paul

Just for the record on my behalf I am always willing to assist the woman in masturbating during sex and always do, so that once we are all done we BOTH have achieved a niiiiice orgasim. I have heard of a lot of men who just do the *wham-bam-thank ya mam* thing everytime, which leaves the woman feeling left out and unsatisfied. Very few women that I know achieve an orgasim through simple penetration from their man, not unless he has a 14 inch monster that vibrates during sex - lol.