For men, what is a typical desire for frequency?

michzz · 05-18-2012, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by kag123

I read on here that some men 30+ still have a strong desire to have sex every day or even multiple times a day. That seems like a lot to me! I would expect that from an 18 year old boy but thought that mens sex drives naturally decreased as they got older.

I know my husband could have sex every day if I wanted him to, but more as a take-it-or-leave-it thing. I would say that his honest threshold of desire is maybe once every 2-3 weeks. Seriously. I usually break the ice well before we get to that point but there have been times when life has gotten in the way, I've been sick, or whatever and I let time slip by and I notice he doesnt really seem to bring it up or say anything until 2-3 weeks have passed. He used to not be able to go that long when younger (we've been together 8 years) but life has changed a lot since those days too, we've got high stress jobs and lives, always on the go, two young kids, not a lot of sleep happening, not a lot of spontaneity available either.

So anyway, just curious. It baffles me that an older man could still have such a high drive.

You consider a man in his 30s as an "older " man?

Holy Cow!!

nader · 05-18-2012, 08:47 PM

I think I could handle every day or every other day, but I've never been with someone with a stronger drive than me.

I'm content with 2-3x/week.

Like most people... less than 1x/week and I get pissy. Sex is my happiness reset button!

chaos · 05-18-2012, 09:05 PM

I can do it everyday with my girlfriend but it would require me not to ejaculate and she's fine with that.

jaquen · 05-19-2012, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by michzz

You consider a man in his 30s as an "older " man?

Holy Cow!!

Yes, that threw me for a loop too.

I'mInLoveWithMyHubby · 05-19-2012, 09:14 AM

Hubby is 3 days, but that's not enough for me. :/. I'd like it more often. He does not get grumpy if there's ever a slow moment(mostly period time).

Havesomethingtosay · 05-19-2012, 09:42 AM

And you wonder why I had a thread that said people on TAM are sex obsessed. This thread is further proof......

Browncoat · 05-19-2012, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Havesomethingtosay

And you wonder why I had a thread that said people on TAM are sex obsessed. This thread is further proof......

I'm not obsessed, I just gotta have it ALL... THE... TIME.

I need my fix *goes into withdrawal shakes and rushes off to find wife* (j/k)

SoWhat · 05-19-2012, 02:26 PM

I'd like to daily.

When she's in one of her bad moods, I still *want* to, I just don't bother initiating with her and go with Palmela Handerson instead.

FirstYearDown · 05-19-2012, 08:15 PM

My husband is 38. He is fine with three times a week.

notsocool · 05-19-2012, 10:14 PM

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notsocool · 05-19-2012, 10:18 PM

I am 50, H is 57, we sometimes miss a day or two during the week. But it's mostly every day.
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heartsbeating · 05-20-2012, 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by michzz

You consider a man in his 30s as an "older " man?

Holy Cow!!

LOL!

anonim · 05-20-2012, 10:13 PM

once or twice a week. work makes me weary.

frustr8dhubby · 05-20-2012, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by SoWhat

Palmela Handerson

That is actually a new one on me... Haha

anonim · 05-20-2012, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by SoWhat

I'd like to daily.

When she's in one of her bad moods, I still *want* to, I just don't bother initiating with her and go with Palmela Handerson instead.

meh, more like pamela manderson