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I've only had this happen with oral when the person stays there and makes me orgasm more than once, eventually I end of squirting.....it's def. a weird feeling.
I didn't realize that some people didn't believe this happened. Lol.
I have always done this, since pretty much the beginning of my sex life. I guess I realized it was strange when I realized that one of my first sex partners had never experienced it before (neither of us were virgins at the time). I really just thought every woman did this. Then I did start to get a little self conscious about it. As I grew up and had many male friends I heard some that would say this was gross or nasty - never did I tell them that I did it myself - but it did serve to make me a bit self conscious about it.
Luckily all of the men I have been with have seemed to like it, especially hubby. I never knew whether a guy would think it was hot or would go running for the hills during our first encounters so I would generally hold back (I can feel when it is going to happen, and would have to stop sex to prevent it
..like make an excuse to switch positions or something). This means I would usually give up any chance of orgasm in order to avoid potential embarrassment. I would usually have to have a few drinks before I was at the point of letting loose in the early days lol.
Now of course this is a regular thing for hubby and I. It's something I think we both just take for granted so its not like anything novel. It does require placement of towels before sex to avoid making an ungodly mess. I think hubby likes it, usually if we time it right I go right before he does and he seems to finish a lot harder those times.
Still LOL though that so many people think this doesn't exist? I feel like a real freak now! Posted via Mobile Device
I didn't realize that some people didn't believe this happened. Lol.
I have always done this, since pretty much the beginning of my sex life. I guess I realized it was strange when I realized that one of my first sex partners had never experienced it before (neither of us were virgins at the time). I really just thought every woman did this. Then I did start to get a little self conscious about it. As I grew up and had many male friends I heard some that would say this was gross or nasty - never did I tell them that I did it myself - but it did serve to make me a bit self conscious about it.
Luckily all of the men I have been with have seemed to like it, especially hubby. I never knew whether a guy would think it was hot or would go running for the hills during our first encounters so I would generally hold back (I can feel when it is going to happen, and would have to stop sex to prevent it
..like make an excuse to switch positions or something). This means I would usually give up any chance of orgasm in order to avoid potential embarrassment. I would usually have to have a few drinks before I was at the point of letting loose in the early days lol.
Now of course this is a regular thing for hubby and I. It's something I think we both just take for granted so its not like anything novel. It does require placement of towels before sex to avoid making an ungodly mess. I think hubby likes it, usually if we time it right I go right before he does and he seems to finish a lot harder those times.
Still LOL though that so many people think this doesn't exist? I feel like a real freak now! Posted via Mobile Device
well if your a freak then your my type of freak and 80% of all other men out there!
My wife is a squirter.... Yes, there is a urine component to it. When I say she is a squirter, I mean heavy, multiple times almost every time we have sex. Yes on the chux!
Anyway, with the lights on, so you can actually see what's going on, there are two components to squirting... The first is a thick, whiteish stuff that comes from the vaginal opening. There is not a ton, but it will wet the sheets. The second, as her orgasm intensifies, clearly comes from her urethra, and sprays out... Not like a solid stream of urine, but squirts and sprays. It's urine.... No other possibility, sorry, been there too many times to listen to the nonsense that it's some magical fluid that mysteriously appears from an unknown gland.
yes, it's awesome knowing I rock her world that hard, but it's a royal pain in the ass for spontaneity! No couch sex, Hell, sex anywhere else in the house because of the mess. If we don't put down chux pads, then the bed is a mess. towels just will not hold enough to keep the bed from getting soaked.
My wife is a squirter.... Yes, there is a urine component to it. When I say she is a squirter, I mean heavy, multiple times almost every time we have sex. Yes on the chux!
Anyway, with the lights on, so you can actually see what's going on, there are two components to squirting... The first is a thick, whiteish stuff that comes from the vaginal opening. There is not a ton, but it will wet the sheets. The second, as her orgasm intensifies, clearly comes from her urethra, and sprays out... Not like a solid stream of urine, but squirts and sprays. It's urine.... No other possibility, sorry, been there too many times to listen to the nonsense that it's some magical fluid that mysteriously appears from an unknown gland.
yes, it's awesome knowing I rock her world that hard, but it's a royal pain in the ass for spontaneity! No couch sex, Hell, sex anywhere else in the house because of the mess. If we don't put down chux pads, then the bed is a mess. towels just will not hold enough to keep the bed from getting soaked.
just like some men can cum more volume than other, women also cum in different amounts. some soak the bed and need plastic sheets and some just need a towel. But I don't believe its urine.
Back Story! My thoughts Dr.’s Answers
So I have never found myself a bit on the rare side when it came to sex (that’s a lie) I never thought that female ejaculation was a rare commodity. I Googled and was reading multiple articles that answered a lot of my assumed questions. Example: Female ejaculation is also known as squirting. Duh! Ejaculation is not urine it is a type of juice that contains two types of sugars. No wonder it tastes sweet. A small percentage of women can actually achieve ejaculation and it is common for female to feel embarrassed. Oh crap! What happens to me is supposed to be embarrassing? What… crap! Now I wonder if my husband has been with anyone else who does it. What if I’m the only one?!? What if he doesn’t like it? O, I’ll just ask TAM peeps hoping they can calm my insane thoughts! Hahahaha….. Sorry for the intro. Had to let you know what craziness goes through my head before this question.
Questions?
Men:
For those of you who have been with females that have ejaculations frequently….
Do you like it?
Does it make you feel like you did a good job, seeing and feeling, what you just did to your partner in crime?
Does it bother you that she soaks the sheets ?
Women:
For those of us “lucky” few….
Do you enjoy sex more?
Do you feel embarrassed when it happens?
Any advice would help honestly!
I’m leaving in like an hour and a half to go have an amazing weekend with my hubby… now all I can think about is this crap!
Partner in crime? WTF?
Anyway, I think it is awesome. My wife is this way.
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When the lights are on, you can see two distinct actions going on.... Vaginal, and urethral. The urethral stuff is urine. There is fluid that comes from the vaginal opening, sometimes in amazing amounts, but not nearly in the volume as the urine. My wife has squirted so hard it has deflected off my D!ck and we felt the spray on our chests and faces...
Like I said, this is an every night occurrence, and I have had my face down there watching plenty of times to know what fluid comes from where.
A girl I was with before I got marriage.. a couple times during sex she suddenly got much wetter, but not 'squirting' since I was already inside. It was really nice, whatever it was. Is this the same thing?
I haven't gotten there with my wife just yet, but maybe one day...
yes, sounds like she did. With your wife, lots of patience and practice should work. She needs to be relaxed and into letting go when the time comes. I can only do it in one position, my husband sitting straight and me on top and in control. From there his penis hits the g spot without fail. It usually takes me at least ten minutes ...and it takes a bit of control on his part not to orgasm before I do but it is worth it for both of us, or so he tells me.
Oh...neither of us care if its pee or not...it cleans up. I would tend to say its not but I'm no biologist. If you're worried about it just don't drink it.
Would love it the wife squirted. She'll all most get there and not like it because it feels like she's going to pee. Supposed to feel that but she cant just let it go and relax. Someday maybe
MOE--find her some literature/online info that reiterates that a)it's not pee, b)lots of men think it's hot and c)it's a more intense o than she's ever had... she just needs to RELAX and give into the feeling. She's NOT going to pee!
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