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Old 06-16-2012, 10:45 PM   #121 (permalink)
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hahahahahaha hahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha

Yeah, like the guy I once dated who told me he knew more about childbirth than I do since he had two kids (and was never in the delivery room) and I only had one. Some of these guys "logic" themselves into stupidity.

I read earlier in this thread where one of the guys told the same story about his girlfriend on the pills that turn urine orange but her ejaculate wasn't orange. I think it was PBear but maybe not. I laughed then also after I read all the subsequent posts from other men still insisting there would have to be some kind of reservoir and since none exists, it has to be pee plain and simple. It's even more ridiculous to me they feel that since no one can answer their reservoir question, then their righteous indignation is justified. Okay then, so here is my unanswerable question. Since all these men have been *inside* a woman's body waaaaayyyyy more often than any woman has been inside her own body, why can't they tell us what the ejaculate is and where it comes from? I mean, you know, since we're asking assinine questions and all, this one is also perfectly logical by that same standard.

My real question though is: Who says there has to be a reservoir? Who are they to decide this fluid has to accumulate and held in reserve? Why can't they see - in all their logical glory and all - it is just as much a possibility the fluid produces and releases at the same time.......of orgasm. They are just determined to make us all as myopic as they are in believing women are like men in the fashion that we have to have a sac of some kind like they do. Yet, they totally ignore the fact that if it's possible for them to produce semen, it is not too far fetched to think women can also produce an ejaculate. It just happens to be theirs is reserved for the purpose of preserving the sperm, which women don't have. Therefore, there is no cause to produce it on a regular basis and no need to retain it.

Anyway.......

I promised myself this discussion (or rather the opposition and assinine questions under the guise of logic) is too ridiculous to participate. But there I go. Can't keep my mouth shut.
Well I would never presume to tell a woman what does or does not go on in her own body, but nevertheless am still curious about a medical explanation
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Old 06-18-2012, 10:56 AM   #122 (permalink)
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My wife learned to do this about a year ago. I think it's HOT! She has to stimulate herself in just the right spot with a vibrator to get it to work but then it's like Niagra Falls
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Old 06-18-2012, 11:17 AM   #123 (permalink)
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I have trying to get my wife to this for like a year.But win I think she almost thare she pushs away.CAN YALL HELP!!
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Old 06-18-2012, 11:29 AM   #124 (permalink)
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I have trying to get my wife to this for like a year.But win I think she almost thare she pushs away.CAN YALL HELP!!
She probably feels like she has to pee, she has to fight past that urge!
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Old 06-18-2012, 12:37 PM   #125 (permalink)
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Some of these guys "logic" themselves into stupidity.
It's not stupidity. It's just a different way of looking at the world. As a man, I put a lot of stock into facts. I'm a left-brained, analytical type of person. If something exists, I want to measure it, look at it, and explain it.

Women aren't like that. They go on feeelings. If they feeel something, that must mean it's real. They don't get hung up on measuring things, or examining them, or explaining them. If you feeel like you have an invisible reservoir of ejaculate in your body, then you do. End of story. It doesn't matter that doctors can't find it. You've felt it and counted to three.

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I laughed then also after I read all the subsequent posts from other men still insisting there would have to be some kind of reservoir and since none exists, it has to be pee plain and simple.
That may have been me. But it was before I truly understood the power of a woman's feeelings. A woman's feeelings can warp time and space and bring the most ridiculous fantasies into reality. I was working with my limited understanding, as a man, of reality as an objectively measurable condition. My bad.

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It's even more ridiculous to me they feel that since no one can answer their reservoir question, then their righteous indignation is justified.
To be fair, I don't think I, or any unbeliever in an invisible reservoir of female ejaculate, was ever indignant. Certainly not as indignant as the women who become angry over questions about their invisible reservoirs.

Although, if you felt like I was indignant, then I must have been indignant. So, nevermind.

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Okay then, so here is my unanswerable question. Since all these men have been *inside* a woman's body waaaaayyyyy more often than any woman has been inside her own body, why can't they tell us what the ejaculate is and where it comes from? I mean, you know, since we're asking assinine questions and all, this one is also perfectly logical by that same standard.
Well, before my conversion, I would have told you that it's urine. It comes from the bladder.

But, of course, that doesn't take into account the feeelings of women on the issue. If some women feeel like it's not urine, then it obviously can't be urine. So, now I believe, like the women on this thread, that it's a magical phenomenon that can't be explained by science. Now, I don't know if it comes from an invisible reservoir, or if urine comes from the bladder, but is transmogrified into a different substance by the time it exists the urethra. But whatever it is, it's got to be pretty amazing to generate the strength of feeelings that it does.

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My real question though is: Who says there has to be a reservoir? Who are they to decide this fluid has to accumulate and held in reserve? Why can't they see - in all their logical glory and all - it is just as much a possibility the fluid produces and releases at the same time.......of orgasm.
Well, earlier in the thread, I would have told you that scientists have investigated the idea and concluded that it wasn't possible. But, the studies that they conducted almost certainly didn't adequately account for the woman in question's feeelings.

So, my earnest question for you is, how do you feeel like you ejaculate. Magic? Spontaneous generation? Invisible reservoirs? I'm not saying you don't. If you feeel like you do, you obviously do. I'm just curious as to how.

I'm obviously new to this new way of looking at the world through your feeelings. So forgive me any mistakes. For example, last night I was laying in bed and had the feeeling of floating. Now, I used to believe that people couldn't levitate because physics tells us so. But, I definitely had the feeeling that I was. So, maybe I really was floating. But, I'm a man, so I don't know if my feeelings have the same power to twist reality to my whims as a woman's feeelings. So I'll probably talk to my wife to see if she feeels like I was floating.

I'll get back to you.
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Old 06-18-2012, 03:23 PM   #126 (permalink)
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i would not know, i have never done this, but have had that feeling were i feel like i have to pee, and i make my partner hurry so i can go pee when done. does this mean, it could mean somthing besides having to pee?
When you do finish and run to the restroom are you able to immediately urinate? The difference is, if you were about to make a mess from an orgasm, you won't be able to go pee immediately after ward. You have to take a few minutes to relax and let the feeling subside before you are able to release urine (at least for me).
Which is an interesting point - I have very limited medical or anatomy knowledge, I admit that, but after having sex I can not immediately urinate. It's almost like when a man has an erection and has to try to calm down a little before urinating maybe. I don't know if that is accurate, since I don't have an erection of my own to compare it too LOLOL!
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Old 06-18-2012, 03:39 PM   #127 (permalink)
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I'm a squirter. My hubby loves it and so do I. I feel the urge to ejaculate about half of the time when having sex, usually during intense clitoral or cervical stimulation. 95% of the time i can control the urge that i get. After awhile, I was able to ejaculate most of the time while masturbating. We keep a supply of towels near the bed. It is NOT urine. I ALWAYS pee before sex ( I found that a full bladder can make sex painful) and it is NoT the same in the release or the contents as urination.

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Old 06-18-2012, 03:40 PM   #128 (permalink)
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When you do finish and run to the restroom are you able to immediately urinate? The difference is, if you were about to make a mess from an orgasm, you won't be able to go pee immediately after ward. You have to take a few minutes to relax and let the feeling subside before you are able to release urine (at least for me).
Which is an interesting point - I have very limited medical or anatomy knowledge, I admit that, but after having sex I can not immediately urinate. It's almost like when a man has an erection and has to try to calm down a little before urinating maybe. I don't know if that is accurate, since I don't have an erection of my own to compare it too LOLOL!
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I need a min to relax too, I don't urinate immediately after sex
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Old 06-18-2012, 03:53 PM   #130 (permalink)
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yes i love it my wife can ejaculate not a lot but there have been times. i love her vagina and her juices and i love her i also love to go down on her i try to as much as i can several times a week even sometimes several times in a day i will go down on her.
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That's it! The poster who took the prescription that causes urine to be REALLY ORANGE and, when having a squirting experience did NOT stain everything in the bed orange, proves the theory that it is NOT urine.
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Old 06-25-2012, 11:40 PM   #132 (permalink)
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well, I hope Atef was serious about leaving. Good Heavens.

I was curious about this once, many years ago, so my kindly old doctor (who I'm pretty sure had studied anatomy) said, okay, I'll show you. He gave me some pills that turned my urine a dark, dark orange color. And then when I had sex and yes, ejaculated? Not orange. Not at all. It's not urine.

I just love it when men come on here and explain my body to me.
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That's it! The poster who took the prescription that causes urine to be REALLY ORANGE and, when having a squirting experience did NOT stain everything in the bed orange, proves the theory that it is NOT urine.
This. As I explained in an earlier post in this thread (I'd not seen lamaga's post after that), my W was taking what I would describe as "anti-bladder infection pills" which turned her pee so orange it actually stained the porcelein toilet bowl. Yet, that very same night when she ejaculated, nothing....NOTHING... on the bed. I need one of these "scientists" that "know" a woman's body to explain that one to me.

And this is coming from a guy that who could care less if she pees all over the bed, the bedroom, or me. I know one thing, that she desribed it as "the best orgasm of her life". That being the case, I could CARE LESS if she's peeing or not. If it feels that incredible, then I'm all for it, and will make all efforts to repeat it for her (and have...many times). I want her to feel fantastic, have no hang ups, and I've "got no dog in this fight" as I could care less what it is. But my experience tells me it is not urine. Now explain to me, someone who could care less if it was urine, how I've twisted this into deceiving myself it is not such when it is urine? I could care less.

For those who have never had a woman beneath them, completely trusting, comfortable, and losing complete control and in total, all body consuming BLISS, well....I guess they'll look for the "scientific" explanation....
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Old 06-27-2012, 11:17 PM   #133 (permalink)
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In my teens is was so wet that I sometimes would squirt. Been a long time since that happened.
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In my teens is was so wet that I sometimes would squirt. Been a long time since that happened.
Being really wet and squirting are two different things, typically. Being wet usually refers to fluid from the vagina; my GF can leave a considerable puddle on the bed that way. Squirting comes from the urethra.

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