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Old 05-18-2012, 12:27 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So I have never found myself a bit on the rare side when it came to sex (that’s a lie) I never thought that female ejaculation was a rare commodity. I Googled and was reading multiple articles that answered a lot of my assumed questions. Example: Female ejaculation is also known as squirting. Duh! Ejaculation is not urine it is a type of juice that contains two types of sugars. No wonder it tastes sweet. A small percentage of women can actually achieve ejaculation and it is common for female to feel embarrassed. Oh crap! What happens to me is supposed to be embarrassing? What… crap! Now I wonder if my husband has been with anyone else who does it. What if I’m the only one?!? What if he doesn’t like it? O, I’ll just ask TAM peeps hoping they can calm my insane thoughts! Hahahaha….. Sorry for the intro. Had to let you know what craziness goes through my head before this question.

Questions?
Men:
For those of you who have been with females that have ejaculations frequently….
Do you like it?
Does it make you feel like you did a good job, seeing and feeling, what you just did to your partner in crime?
Does it bother you that she soaks the sheets ?

Women:
For those of us “lucky” few….
Do you enjoy sex more?
Do you feel embarrassed when it happens?

Any advice would help honestly!
I’m leaving in like an hour and a half to go have an amazing weekend with my hubby… now all I can think about is this crap!
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embarrassed? hell no!!!
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I have to ask, if it's not pee then what orifice does it come from and what organ is producing the ejaculate?
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I have to ask, if it's not pee then what orifice does it come from and what organ is producing the ejaculate?
It comes from inside the vag. h/o this is part of the article
Until the 1980s, most doctors who were aware of the phenomenon of ejaculation used to assume the fluid must be urine. As a treatment, they would tend to recommend exercises to build up the pelvic muscles.

And many women do leak a little urine during sex and during other activities as well. This is called 'stress incontinence' and it happens to vast numbers of females when they sneeze, cough or laugh. It is particularly common in those who have had children.

However, when urine leaks during sex, it's often during foreplay or vigorous intercourse rather than at orgasm.

In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate.
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It comes from inside the vag. h/o this is part of the article
Until the 1980s, most doctors who were aware of the phenomenon of ejaculation used to assume the fluid must be urine. As a treatment, they would tend to recommend exercises to build up the pelvic muscles.

And many women do leak a little urine during sex and during other activities as well. This is called 'stress incontinence' and it happens to vast numbers of females when they sneeze, cough or laugh. It is particularly common in those who have had children.

However, when urine leaks during sex, it's often during foreplay or vigorous intercourse rather than at orgasm.

In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate.
okay so mystery glands produce it but what orifice, are you saying it comes streaming out of the walls of the vagina?
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Female ejaculation (colloquially known as squirting or gushing) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be the topic of debate among medical professionals.


Nature of fluid

Critics of the concept have maintained that ejaculation is merely either stress incontinence or vaginal lubrication. Research in this area has concentrated almost exclusively on attempts to prove that it is not urine measuring substances such as urea, creatinine, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), prostate specific antigen (PSA),glucose and fructose levels. Early work was contradictory, for instance the initial study on one woman by Addiego and colleagues reported in 1981, could not be confirmed in a subsequent study on 11 women in 1983, but were confirmed in another 7 women in 1984. But in 1985 a different group studied 27 women, and found only urine, suggesting that results depend critically on the methods used.

A 2007 study on two women, involved ultrasound, endoscopic and biochemical analysis of fluid. The ejaculate was compared to pre-orgasmic urine from the same woman, and also to published data on male ejaculate. In both women, higher levels of PSA, PAP, glucose but lower levels of creatinine were found in the ejaculate. PSA levels were comparable to those in males.

Source of fluid

One very practical objection relates to the claims about the volume ejaculated, since this has to come from some storage area in the pelvis, of which the urinary bladder is obviously the largest source. The actual volume of the para-urethral tissue is quite small. By comparison, male ejaculate varies from 0.2-6.6 mL (0.04-1.3 tsp) (95% confidence interval), with a maximum of 13 mL (2.6 tsp). Therefore claims of larger amounts of ejaculate are likely to contain at least some amount of urine. The eleven specimens analyzed by Goldberg in 1983, ranged from 3-15 mL (0.6-3.0 tsp). One source states that Skene's glands are capable of excreting 30-50 mL (6-10 tsp) in 30-50 seconds. but it is unclear how this was measured and has not been confirmed. One approach is to use a chemical like methylene blue (or drugs like Urised which contain it) so that any urinary contamination can be detected. Belzer showed that in a woman he studied, the dye was in her urine, but not her orgasmic expulsion.

PAP and PSA have been identified in the para-urethral tissues, using biochemical and immunohistochemical methods, confirming that the ejaculate likely arises from the ducts in these tissues, in a manner homologous to that in the male. Another marker common to the prostate tissue in both male and female is Human Protein 1.

However, studies on the actual penis are very limited compared to those on the tissues of likely origin. PSA occurs in urine, which is elevated in post-orgasmic samples, compared to pre-orgasmic. Simultaneous collection of ejaculate also showed PSA in all cases, but in higher concentration than the urine.

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So I have never found myself a bit on the rare side when it came to sex (that’s a lie) I never thought that female ejaculation was a rare commodity. I Googled and was reading multiple articles that answered a lot of my assumed questions. Example: Female ejaculation is also known as squirting. Duh! Ejaculation is not urine it is a type of juice that contains two types of sugars. No wonder it tastes sweet. A small percentage of women can actually achieve ejaculation and it is common for female to feel embarrassed. Oh crap! What happens to me is supposed to be embarrassing? What… crap! Now I wonder if my husband has been with anyone else who does it. What if I’m the only one?!? What if he doesn’t like it? O, I’ll just ask TAM peeps hoping they can calm my insane thoughts! Hahahaha….. Sorry for the intro. Had to let you know what craziness goes through my head before this question.

Questions?
Men:
For those of you who have been with females that have ejaculations frequently….
Do you like it?
Does it make you feel like you did a good job, seeing and feeling, what you just did to your partner in crime?
Does it bother you that she soaks the sheets ?

Women:
For those of us “lucky” few….
Do you enjoy sex more?
Do you feel embarrassed when it happens?

Any advice would help honestly!
I’m leaving in like an hour and a half to go have an amazing weekend with my hubby… now all I can think about is this crap!
I helped my wife learn to do it. She thought it was a myth or just not capable. It took a while to make it happen, but with no pressure and coaching her thru it, she finally managed it. They've been easier to bring about since, and is not difficult at all for her now.

Do I enjoy it? Hell yes! I love it when she does that.

No, does not bother me when she soaks the sheets. Sometimes it's not a lot, other times it will leave a soccerball size wet spot on the bed. And it's awesome.

She was blown away the first few times it happened. Said it was the most all consuming orgasms she's ever had. Nothing came close to that for her before. Her whole body was shaking uncontrollably. She cried afterwards.

Yes, it not only makes me feel good I can do this to her, but that I introduced her to it, and gently continued to pursue it until it happened.

There is nothing like watching a woman lay there and almost violently shake and quiver uncontrollably, completely consumed and lost in orgasm. What is not to love about that?!!!
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okay so mystery glands produce it but what orifice, are you saying it comes streaming out of the walls of the vagina?
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Female ejaculation, also known as "squirting" or "gushing" is not, we repeat not urine. It is actually near the exact (minus the sperm) chemical construction as prostatic fluid.

You may be thinking, “But women don’t have prostates!” Not true. Only a couple of years ago the medical establishment admitted the existence of the female prostate. The G-spot is the main ingredient in female ejaculation and it's no coincidence that the female G-spot is in practically exactly the same spot (albeit on a different wall) as the male prostate.


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it is just like men. How can they cum with out peeing? It is something that our bodys naturally know how to do... Now dont get me wrong I am not an expert hince googling about it.
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I helped my wife learn to do it. She thought it was a myth or just not capable. It took a while to make it happen, but with no pressure and coaching her thru it, she finally managed it. They've been easier to bring about since, and is not difficult at all for her now.

Do I enjoy it? Hell yes! I love it when she does that.

No, does not bother me when she soaks the sheets. Sometimes it's not a lot, other times it will leave a soccerball size wet spot on the bed. And it's awesome.

She was blown away the first few times it happened. Said it was the most all consuming orgasms she's ever had. Nothing came close to that for her before. Her whole body was shaking uncontrollably. She cried afterwards.

Yes, it not only makes me feel good I can do this to her, but that I introduced her to it, and gently continued to pursue it until it happened.

There is nothing like watching a woman lay there and almost violently shake and quiver uncontrollably, completely consumed and lost in orgasm. What is not to love about that?!!!
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yeah i can understand the quivering thing. Trust me it is not fun when you have to get up and walk though! Thank you for your thoughts!
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Female ejaculation this is the site were i got the first answer not wikianswers...
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it is just like men. How can they cum with out peeing? It is something that our bodys naturally know how to do... Now dont get me wrong I am not an expert hince googling about it.
well men have an actual channel that goes from the scrotum to the urethra tract (vas deferens)
the scrotum produces semen/sperm and sends it through the vas deferens

that's why I am asking, if it is not pee then what organ is making the ejaculate and how does the ejaculate get to the urethra?
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well men have an actual channel that goes from the scrotum to the urethra tract (vas deferens)
the scrotum produces semen/sperm and sends it through the vas deferens

that's why I am asking, if it is not pee then what organ is making the ejaculate and how does the ejaculate get to the urethra?
I dont know everything I have read stats that it is not urine. It may contain small amounts in certain women depending on the method they used to get there. But they all stat it is not straight up pee bc of the contents in the "ejaculation/orgasm"
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My wife has only done this 4 times. Twice during sex and twice oral. The first time she did it it was during sex and she was embarrassed apologized. She said she felt this crazy intense pee feeling and let it go during her orgasm. She got up, the bed was soaked around her. This was 8 years into our marriage so it wasn't like she was trying to impress me. I was a skeptic so I figured my penis was just poking the bladder and she couldn't hold it.

The next time it happened was a few months ago, I had my head down in her lap while she had me in her lap. I was on top. As she orgasmed, her area spouted like a whale. Not pee, not a big squirt then hold, like a MIST. It was all over the wall even! This was NOT pee, I don't think a person could even mist spray pee if they wanted too.

The other few times were not on the same scale as the first two, but my wife is not the type to EVER PEE or FAKE anything. If it is pee, she absolutely can't control it.
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So I have never found myself a bit on the rare side when it came to sex (that’s a lie) I never thought that female ejaculation was a rare commodity. I Googled and was reading multiple articles that answered a lot of my assumed questions. Example: Female ejaculation is also known as squirting. Duh! Ejaculation is not urine it is a type of juice that contains two types of sugars. No wonder it tastes sweet. A small percentage of women can actually achieve ejaculation and it is common for female to feel embarrassed. Oh crap! What happens to me is supposed to be embarrassing? What… crap! Now I wonder if my husband has been with anyone else who does it. What if I’m the only one?!? u if he doesn’t like it? O, I’ll just ask TAM peeps hoping they can calm my insane thoughts! Hahahaha….. Sorry for the intro. Had to let you know what craziness goes through my head before this question.

Questions?
Men:
For those of you who have been with females that have ejaculations frequently….
Do you like it?
Does it make you feel like you did a good job, seeing and feeling, what you just did to your partner in crime?
Does it bother you that she soaks the sheets ?

Women:
For those of us “lucky” few….
Do you enjoy sex more?
Do you feel embarrassed when it happens?

Any advice would help honestly!
I’m leaving in like an hour and a half to go have an amazing weekend with my hubby… now all I can think about is this crap!
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