Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
then they either lie or avoid these threads altogether
The OP is addressed to those of us who are above average size, and the women who are with men in that category. Nader was looking for some real feedback because he and the wife are facing trouble with anal sex, and he wanted to know if it was even possible to incorporate it at his size. Why would there be an outpouring of men who aren't extra endowed in a thread that's not about them?
It's like going into a thread about feeling too skinny, and complaining that you don't see a lot of fat people in it.
The OP is addressed to those of us who are above average size, and the women who are with men in that category. Nader was looking for some real feedback because he and the wife are facing trouble with anal sex, and he wanted to know if it was even possible to incorporate it at his size. Why would there be an outpouring of men who aren't extra endowed in a thread that's not about them?
It's like going into a thread about feeling too skinny, and complaining that you don't see a lot of fat people in it.
because it is just the latest of many where EVERY guy is hung like a horse. but we know better.
because it is just the latest of many where EVERY guy is hung like a horse. but we know better.
Ah, I see. Well can't say I'm surprised.
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Originally Posted by PurpleTurtle80
To the OP....yes it's possible, my ex was well hung and anal was my favorite with him. Also, I found that being on my side was easiest for getting loosened up, but I enjoyed being on top for the control.
and Coconut Oil is an awesome lube!
We've always done it on the side as well, but maybe trying it with her on top could be awesome.
and i specifically said I was not horse-hung.. just too big for my wife's ass, apparently. Good suggestions in here though, so maybe there's hope.
It's probably got more to do with having the time and determination to do it than anything else. It seems like something you have to dedicate a weekend to.
I just wanted to mention a few things based on my own experience, the biggest one being that you must! be very very careful.
A few have suggested the use of alcohol making things easier! This is really the wrong thing to do. You aint dealing with a place that naturally stretches, you need to know when to stop, Ive never had a problem with "it" until last year, until Hubby and i ended up in bed after LOTS to drink and started engaging entheusiastically in the topic of this here thread.
Because of the drink, it we were more entheusiastic than normal, we had a lovely time!...until the following morning. Long story short, that night was responsible for a month off work..several embarressing trips to the emergancy doctor..( one of which sat me down *albeit slowly* and said that I had all the injurys down there, that she would expect to see on a male rape victim, if i told her everything, she would see to it that I would get the help that I needed and everything would be ok!!!! , another, an old school Dr, just simply said "Why young lady...why?!) My husband,who is in my eyes is the most gentle and caring man on the planet, was horrified and we have never done it since.
Then came the Shingles, braught on by the trauma, i needed local anesthetic cream and morphine based painkillers to do anything in the bathroom, and spent most of that month in my jammys or in the bath.
Moral of this story is know your limits down there and never involve drink! Pain is our bodies way of saying NO..and drink shuts your body up!
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but we know better.
