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Old 05-21-2012, 11:56 AM   #16 (permalink)
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OK, here's what I'd like to get thoughts on.

Are you ever to the point where you body is more than able, and raring to go, but your still not in the mood for sex (or more sex)? Ever just told you body NO?

Or is it that "too much sex" means that your body just can't go on?
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:05 PM   #17 (permalink)
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OK, here's what I'd like to get thoughts on.

Are you ever to the point where you body is more than able, and raring to go, but your still not in the mood for sex (or more sex)? Ever just told you body NO?

Or is it that "too much sex" means that your body just can't go on?
For me... I NEVER tell my body no. I never say no lol. I have been to the point of passing out. God that was an amazing night. I think for my H and I too much is that our bodys are too weak because for the both of us we always want more.
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:05 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Is it true that men like to feel like porn stars?
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:07 PM   #19 (permalink)
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RandomDude's wife wanted sex with him 3 times a day, and he got tired of it, feeling that she was forcing him into the act. You can have too much of a good thing.
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:10 PM   #20 (permalink)
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RandomDude's wife wanted sex with him 3 times a day, and he got tired of it, feeling that she was forcing him into the act. You can have too much of a good thing.
When it is forceful and one sided I agree but when you both want it just as bad I dont think you can ever have too much!
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:11 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Is it true that men like to feel like porn stars?
This one does.

My wife is actually very good at making the "it's not real" very real. However, everyday can't be like that. I don't think that would be possible. You have off days, you have on days. If I was to give her a heads up or challenge her though, she can turn our bedroom into a porn set for sure, all the tricks. No threesomes or anything that would hurt the marriage though.
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:12 PM   #22 (permalink)
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This one does.

My wife is actually very good at making the "it's not real" very real. However, everyday can't be like that. I don't think that would be possible. You have off days, you have on days. If I was to give her a heads up or challenge her though, she can turn our bedroom into a porn set for sure, all the tricks. No threesomes or anything that would hurt the marriage though.
Good to know. My H and I have the strangest of conversations I swear.
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:13 PM   #23 (permalink)
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We have about 10% more sex than I'd like, but you know what? I had many sexless years, and anyone who is within 10% either way is a lucky, lucky person!
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Is it true that men like to feel like porn stars?
Men like to have their ego stroked. They like to feel appreciated. They like to think they're making it happen for you.

If feeling like a porn star means feeling like a stud in the bedroom then yes.

If feeling like a porn star means feeling ugly with a big c*ck, bad acting skills, and getting fake moans from other poor actors....then no.
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Men like to have their ego stroked. They like to feel appreciated. They like to think they're making it happen for you.

If feeling like a porn star means feeling like a stud in the bedroom then yes.

If feeling like a porn star means feeling ugly with a big c*ck, bad acting skills, and getting fake moans from other poor actors....then no.
In the case that I'm talking about it was he was def meaning a stud
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If feeling like a porn star means feeling ugly with a big c*ck, bad acting skills, and getting fake moans from other poor actors....then no.
HILARIOUS!
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:43 PM   #27 (permalink)
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I feel like my sex drive is especially high for a woman so I say no way jose to too much sex. ;-)
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For me... I NEVER tell my body no. I never say no lol. I have been to the point of passing out. God that was an amazing night. I think for my H and I too much is that our bodys are too weak because for the both of us we always want more.

See I have to tell my body no. I am highly arousable, to the point where for many years I thought I had a problem. My body can get aroused at the rush of strong, totally non-sexual emotion. I could be found googling "second puberty" more than once.

And my wife, who is the sweetest woman you're likely to ever meet this side of Heaven, is also a manupulitive little minx sometimes, and she KNOWS it. So I'll tell her I'm not in the mood, and she knows that even as I'm denying her my soldier is rising to attention at her mere request, or after a few light kisses. He sure doesn't know loyalty! She totally takes advantage of me, and all too often I let her!
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Old 05-21-2012, 12:49 PM   #29 (permalink)
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I have yet to be in any relationship that tests my limits... From some stories I've heard, having a nympho wife is not all it's cracked up to be!

But if I don't wait long enough to have sex I'll have trouble finishing and then I just end up feeling bad.
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Old 05-23-2012, 12:40 PM   #30 (permalink)
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I was wondering if anyone out there has ever had just too much sex?
Umm, what does that even mean? That's like asking if someone has ever had too much of the best tasting dessert ever, a magical dessert that is actually healthy for the body, mind, heart, and bond between yourself and the person you love (well, or like?!).

Since I've met my current girlfriend I've been in an almost constant state of chafe (knees, penis, sore tongue/lips) - and even so, no, neither of us want less sex and would agree that there's no such thing as "too much [good] sex"

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