Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
I wish I could just lay around the house watching my favorite television show getting a bj the entire day. I am not talking for an hour or 2, the entire day. If I had to go to the bathroom, ask my wife politely to move for a second, get up, go, wash off, come back to the couch and continue my bj. If she had a shirt pocket I would use it to place the remote control in it. Dinner time, take out the remote control and put a beer in her shirt pocket, ask if she could hold the remote for me with one hand, and just rest the plate on my wifes head. Eating would be a bit tricky but I think I could manage.
lol you guys are halirious! I meant like do you ever get to the point were your shooting blanks? The reason I'm asking is because I was talking to my H last night after our long over due weeekend alone and I asked him if he wanted to have sex before bed. He asked me in a confused voice if I was joking and I said NO! He proceeded to tell me how he has not gotten much sleep over the past few days because some beautiful women (who will remain unmentioned lol.) never let him get more than 2 hours of sleep at a time and he is wore out! Bahahahaha I did my job then!
Yes, for me there is. We've been having sex a lot lately, and my penis has been feeling pretty raw. I had to stop a BJ yesterday because it had become painful.
And from time to time we might have sex in the morning, or afternoon, and one of us wants sex again in the evening, and the other is already feeling pretty satisfied and full. Since we have a very healthy sex life, I have no problem turning my wife down sometimes when I'm just not in that place.
There was a young lady on here a few weeks back that reported that when she first started reading
TAM and seeing how important Sex is to a man, she was jumping on every one of his boners.
That after a period of time, it felt like work, didn't enjoy it as much,
it was taking to much out of both of them. Didn't really help their
relationship.
I believe that she has a healthy sex frequency with her husband but yes it got to be to much for them. Think it was FrenchFry
who posted that.
The thing is that we dont get to see each other every day. Sometimes for more than a week at a time and that is just seeing each other. The last time that we had nights and days together was one month from last friday. I was not complaining about the amount hell I told him even though I was sore I wanted more! He had to go back to his man hole Sunday night. The amount is not nearly that much when we are together almost everyday at least not like 6 times a day. It feels like we tried to make up for the time that we lost lol. Poor thing was just worn out
I can get sore after too much. And I've been to the point of shooting blanks. This was all years ago. Now the problem is that even if my wife ups the frequency, I find that I get bored with the routine because it's always the same and if I try anything new she refuses and stops me cold.
lol you guys are halirious! I meant like do you ever get to the point were your shooting blanks? The reason I'm asking is because I was talking to my H last night after our long over due weeekend alone and I asked him if he wanted to have sex before bed. He asked me in a confused voice if I was joking and I said NO! He proceeded to tell me how he has not gotten much sleep over the past few days because some beautiful women (who will remain unmentioned lol.) never let him get more than 2 hours of sleep at a time and he is wore out! Bahahahaha I did my job then!
Oh yeah I've been to the point where when I O there's not a bit of ejaculate because there's been no time to make more.
I've also been to the point where there's no way in hell I' m getting off again.
Then I've been to the point where there's no way in hell I'm getting it up again for awhile.
So I guess while Mentally I want to keep going my body is tellin me "you're done". Posted via Mobile Device
It's like after you over exercise or lift weights the day before and your whole body is extremely sore. If you use the muscle again or just walk off the pain, it eventually goes away.
I just bite down on my teeth and wait for the pain to subside or the rawness feeling to disappear. If I cry a bit, I tell my wife it's tears of joy. I will never let her see my weakness.
I just bite down on my teeth and wait for the pain to subside or the rawness feeling to disappear. If I cry a bit, I tell my wife it's tears of joy. I will never let her see my weakness.
Neve been to the point that I couldn't get it up again. I have been to the point of not another O. Usually after 5 or 6. But by that point it was ok with me.