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Since this topic of lube I feel strange. I'm naturally a wet kinda girl. I love drying up, and having "rough" sex, everytime we do I feel like it is was my first time. When I'm super wet I feel like I have this huge vag that someone just fisted! It is not enjoyable to me so i dont see how it could be for him. Comments plz. I know everyone is different and I know everyone likes different things. I just feel alone in this crazy world. Stupid Pregnancy Hormones!!!
Since this topic of lube I feel strange. I'm naturally a wet kinda girl. I love drying up, and having "rough" sex, everytime we do I feel like it is was my first time. When I'm super wet I feel like I have this huge vag that someone just fisted! It is not enjoyable to me so i dont see how it could be for him. Comments plz. I know everyone is different and I know everyone likes different things. I just feel alone in this crazy world. Stupid Pregnancy Hormones!!!
The rougher/slightly dry sex is also my favorite, but not for my wife. After 20 minutes of intercourse she will begin to dry up somewhat. Although this creates friction (very tight sensation), it never really irritates my penis skin (even with the rough pulling). On her, it tears her up pretty bad. The only time I will somewhat ignore the issue is if I am near orgasm.... I will keep going and enjoy the friction. She would slap me if I stopped to lube her and started the whole "build up" process over. With a lot of lube, it does feel much looser, much less friction. We can play longer but I will keep going until I get that friction feeling back regardless....
We mostly use the lube for anal, and that is an area that 100% hurts me if it is not lubed up. I can't even move unless it's lubed properly.
The rougher/slightly dry sex is also my favorite, but not for my wife. After 20 minutes of intercourse she will begin to dry up somewhat. Although this creates friction (very tight sensation), it never really irritates my penis skin (even with the rough pulling). On her, it tears her up pretty bad. The only time I will somewhat ignore the issue is if I am near orgasm.... I will keep going and enjoy the friction.
It's the same way (only for my wife she tends to start drying up between 7-15 minutes). Dry gives me the friction I crave during sex, and like you said tears her up badly. She prefers it as wet as possible. So we don't do it unless like you said I'm near orgasm.
So is it bad if a woman is generally naturally wet? Posted via Mobile Device
I wouldn't say it's bad... but for me it cuts the sensation and pleasure by a ton. At extreme times it can feel like it's only enough to keep me erect... but adds nothing towards my climaxing.
Your husband may feel differently though, and in the end it's his opinion that matters for you.
I am going to agree with Browncoat on this one Jellybeans. The friction also creates the "pushback" sensation. The pushback (tightness and friction) is what slightly massages the hard shaft into the prostate area.
The pushback sensation is also created by hitting the back of the vagina, but when it's super slippery wet, it's hard to feel the back as well. Sometimes when it is to wet, I am unsure if I even have an "real" erection.
In other words, that friction (and I am not talking desert dry, just not super wet) is the key for almost all of the sensations I feel during intercourse.
Since this topic of lube I feel strange. I'm naturally a wet kinda girl. I love drying up, and having "rough" sex, everytime we do I feel like it is was my first time. When I'm super wet I feel like I have this huge vag that someone just fisted! It is not enjoyable to me so i dont see how it could be for him. Comments plz. I know everyone is different and I know everyone likes different things. I just feel alone in this crazy world. Stupid Pregnancy Hormones!!!
True, when your girl is very wet the friction is missing but it`s more than made up for by the "I made her that wet!" mental turn on.
At least for me, the wetter she is the better I was.
My GF is like you, she likes it dry, I like it any way. When she gets turned on she gets wet so most times she like to just jump in and GO!! It's a little rougher than I'm used to but she's way, way better than the X!!
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