Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
What kind of talk should I be saying to my wife as we make love?
I find it akward to say things to her as we are making out.
What kind of words does a woman want to hear?
I find the usual 'I love you' a bit crass sometimes. At other times I want to talk real dirty but I don't know whether or not she appreciates it. She doesn't talk to me at all except when she is coming, then it is all groans and moans which I enjoy
Woman what are the best words to turn you on while making out?
it really does depend on the woman but the filthier the better for me - i don't want to hear about love, I want to hear about how nice it tastes and how hot and wet and tight I am and how you want to stick your tongue up my **** as far as it will go, quite frankly
but it has to be natural for you - don't use words you wouldn't normally use, it just sounds odd
she probably wants to know how hot she is, how turned on you are, and how much you can't wait to do certain things to her. The more specific you can be, the better.
Depending on her personality she might want feedback - helpful suggestions (I want you to..) directives (I want to ...) or positive feedback (keep doing that!)
Test her boundaries. Say something really creative and nasty and see if she likes it or not. If you can't tell, ask later. After sexy time, not during.
I'm not so sure this works.
It kind of takes the fun out of it and I believe that most ladies would hold back or
not be completely open and honest, thinking the correct answer is romantic love making.
I like Gaia's suggestion to try out a word or two, see the reaction.
Take it slow and don't go overboard at first.
Know when the time is right too.
You say try out a word or two. What words should I try saying?
I personally don't wanna hear anything when we're making out. To me it would sound too cheesy like something out of those adult movies. I like it quiet with just the sound of our lips smacking and our breathing. That's enough to get me turned on.
I like when Hubs speaks Spanish to me in bed. He could be reading the grocery list and I wouldn't care.
lol spanish isn't too impressive to me... probably because i grew up around it.. but I love when my hubby speaks french! lol He seems to like when I talk in spanish... even if it's cussing him out.. :/
Best to have this conversation with your wife cause you will get a myriad of responses here.
I hate dirty talk!! I feel like it's acting been having sex for 23 years hated it then still hate it now. If it was a random stranger maybe it would be okay, but with my wife we've done everything there is to do 10 times already.
I don't think either one of us are doing something the other has seen many times before. I do like moans, the sounds of hard breathing, shadows, candles, and the like. Just the verbal I can do without.
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cause you will get a myriad of responses here.
