Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
What kind of talk should I be saying to my wife as we make love?
I find it akward to say things to her as we are making out.
What kind of words does a woman want to hear?
I find the usual 'I love you' a bit crass sometimes. At other times I want to talk real dirty but I don't know whether or not she appreciates it. She doesn't talk to me at all except when she is coming, then it is all groans and moans which I enjoy
Woman what are the best words to turn you on while making out?
it really does depend on the woman but the filthier the better for me - i don't want to hear about love, I want to hear about how nice it tastes and how hot and wet and tight I am and how you want to stick your tongue up my **** as far as it will go, quite frankly
but it has to be natural for you - don't use words you wouldn't normally use, it just sounds odd
I personally don't wanna hear anything when we're making out. To me it would sound too cheesy like something out of those adult movies. I like it quiet with just the sound of our lips smacking and our breathing. That's enough to get me turned on.
I like when Hubs speaks Spanish to me in bed. He could be reading the grocery list and I wouldn't care.
lol spanish isn't too impressive to me... probably because i grew up around it.. but I love when my hubby speaks french! lol He seems to like when I talk in spanish... even if it's cussing him out.. :/
Best to have this conversation with your wife cause you will get a myriad of responses here.
I hate dirty talk!! I feel like it's acting been having sex for 23 years hated it then still hate it now. If it was a random stranger maybe it would be okay, but with my wife we've done everything there is to do 10 times already.
I don't think either one of us are doing something the other has seen many times before. I do like moans, the sounds of hard breathing, shadows, candles, and the like. Just the verbal I can do without.