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Hmmmm.... we almost always have sex, so we would more likely plan on not having it sometimes. However, we each or both go out of our way once in awhile to plan something awesome, like a night at a hotel, or candlelight and oils on the frontroom floor.... we plan special sex.
I prefer heat of the moment, my wife finds that planning sex helps her.
So for the past month or two, I just let her surprise me even though she schedules sex into her day (we both get what we want that way). That is I don't know her schedule so it's feels more like a heat of the moment.
It's not planned per say. It's expected and until someone says I'm too tired or sick. Sometimes I will state I need sex like now or I will tell hubby when we get home no matter what time...he has a top notch bj coming his way.
We might have a conversation about sex and try to make it happen. Not always guaranteed.