Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
As a man who felt fortunate to get any sex at all, expeshly BJ's I hate when women do that - once in awhile is ok but I just like to savor the moment and finish experiencing my full orgasm, and of course I'm not going to criticize, simply try to show a little more pleasure on my face on those occasions when she actually decides not to be suddenly inflicting annoying tickle torture - like the other guys have said its too sensitive, a lit gently sucking is ok but not on the glans. It's like building a perfect piece of art and then just as you are finishing the last little brush strokes someone throws paint all over the canvas.
If you really want to please HIM, then just hold it, squeeze it or suck on it gently but don't put any more friction on the glans or you are spoiling his perfect moment. If you are just doing it cause it brings you pleasure to spoil his moment then go ahead I guess.
Good thing you're not my husband then. I wouldn't do it if he didn't like it. Gawd
I know how to please my man. Thanks. He gets pleased often too When I do what I do, he does like it then says, "ok ok ok" and I stop. Holy shet. Do you think i'd be like that to my husband? LOL! Unreal. I didn't ask for you advice about bjs. Hubs likes them just fine
I know hubby likes it the longer I hold it still in his mouth. He never said it explicitly but his vocalizations tell the whole story. The only problem is that I wanna swallow that stuff and I can't swallow it with it still in my mouth. I don't know why. Is that a common problem? When I swallow, I always have to have my mouth closed. Now I think I'm odd.....
I had that problem but if I tilt my head back, I can swallow while he's still inside.
I always stop immediately because I know how sensitive everything is right after. I mimic what he does after intercourse. He likes to take a few minutes and just be still.
That's the difference with your man and mine. When hubs orgasms inside by intercourse, he keeps thrusting for about 20 seconds. To each their own
Good thing you're not my husband then. I wouldn't do it if he didn't like it. Gawd
I know how to please my man. Thanks. He gets pleased often too When I do what I do, he does like it then says, "ok ok ok" and I stop. Holy shet. Do you think i'd be like that to my husband? LOL! Unreal. I didn't ask for you advice about bjs. Hubs likes them just fine
alrighty then
Reading it just reminded me of when my ex did that, my reaction was to laugh and say ok ok ok too as I pushed her off. We'd laugh about it after, it probably looked to her like I sincerely enjoyed but I actually resented it - resented the tickle tease after that is, not the actual bj... signals were getting crossed, the sexy signal was much much clearer than the annoying one though, so I just lived with it, I was commenting to offer a way to improve the pleasure.
But if your H sincerely likes this he is a lucky man to have such an enthusiastic lady!
Reading it just reminded me of when my ex did that, my reaction was to laugh and say ok ok ok too as I pushed her off. We'd laugh about it after, it probably looked to her like I sincerely enjoyed but I actually resented it.
But if your H sincerely likes this he is a lucky man to have such an enthusiastic lady!
Well, considering that he continues to thrust after he orgasms in intercourse for a little while until it's soft... i can't think that he doesn't like what I do. I'll ask him though...but that's lame. I give good bjs. I can tell by his sounds and faces and his enthusiasm while I'm doing it. But this thread wasn't about telling me I'm suckin my man wrong.
same here, HappyLoving -- and I don't want to pull right off, so I generally just stay there with it in my mouth for a minute or so. If you figure out how to swallow under the circumstances, let me know!
Ugh drives me crazy at the dentist too. I tend to have a lot of saliva and that suction thing is not adequate. Maybe we can get one of those dental suckers and stick it back there while doing oral. LOL!
I can't speak so much for bjs, but when my x gave me a hand job, things got intensely sensitive shortly after the explosion. I would often say, ok, ok, and she knew it was intense. Sometimes she would continue while. It's weird, but during that time it could be described as almost unbearable, but later in my mind, I found myself enjoying it and hoping she did it again next time. Weird, right?
I can't speak so much for bjs, but when my x gave me a hand job, things got intensely sensitive shortly after the explosion. I would often say, ok, ok, and she knew it was intense. Sometimes she would continue while. It's weird, but during that time it could be described as almost unbearable, but later in my mind, I found myself enjoying it and hoping she did it again next time. Weird, right?
Is it just the head or the whole shaft? It seems I could keep stroking his shaft after he came as long as I didn't touch the head.
Is it just the head or the whole shaft? It seems I could keep stroking his shaft after he came as long as I didn't touch the head.
I'm not sure, it was difficult to distinguish during the intensity. She did full strokes that included the head, and she picked up the speed during the o and afterwards, so it was difficult to tell.
Stop the suck. But get those hands and arms busy holding and stroking his legs.
At the core of this is baby making and he wants to feel you pulling and holding him in tight. So simulate that by grabbing onto him wih you hands and and and holding him tightly Posted via Mobile Device
Everyone comments as if her man is the same as you...which is not true. If this is about her man, she should ask him outright.
This IS good advice. Not knocking it. But A) it feeds my ego a little bit to be able to spring something on my man that he likes but didn't expect, and B) my X was never consistent about telling me what he liked, and C) I don't think everyone can articulate that well what they like. I know I can't. I'd have a really hard time verbally guiding a man on how to treat my clit. Easier to just guide his hand / fingers. But - maybe that's an answer for me too. Ask him to guide me.
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Re: Stop? Or continue sucking? 
He gets pleased often too 
When I do what I do, he does like it then says, "ok ok ok" and I stop. Holy shet. Do you think i'd be like that to my husband? LOL! Unreal. 
