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Have any other men here ever gave their wives or girlfriends passionate hugs and kisses, then when they were so into them enjoying themselves you simply stopped, smiled at them and left them alone? I have and it has produced the most intense sex sessions ever, usually initiated by her. Have you had similar results? Ladies you to can chime in and share your experiences as well.
There have been times that I kept getting her close with my tongue stopping before the big O. I keep alternating between tongue and c*ck. When I felt she could not stand it anymore, I took her all the way. WOW did she ever explode when I finally let her!!!
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Thanks for sharing romantic_guy. But I'm not talking about doing it while having sex with our women but while still having our clothes on.
I believe the holding back creates sexual tension that may not be expected from the woman. It also shows sexual self control from the man as well as proof that not every act of attention and affection is a prelude to sex.
I would be lying if I said that I did not extremely enjoy this non-sexual kind of attention and affection I give and receive from her.
Thanks for sharing romantic_guy. But I'm not talking about doing it while having sex with our women but while still having our clothes on.
I believe the holding back creates sexual tension that may not be expected from the woman. It also shows sexual self control from the man as well as proof that not every act of attention and affection is a prelude to sex.
I would be lying if I said that I did not extremely enjoy this non-sexual kind of attention and affection I give and receive from her.
I have gotten that to work as well. I came up from behind her, gentely pinned her against the counter and whispered hard into her ear how much I wanted her. I then walked away with a wink as I turned the corner. That evening finished up very well for us.
He's retired, I go to work in the a.m...... Sometimes (ok, often) there is a looooooong hot kiss goodbye, maybe groping, maybe stroking.... and then I'm gone to work and we both smile all day... waiting.
A side benefit for me is that it helps warm up the ol' engine. I can't get it ready like I could when I was 21 years old - no matter how delusional I want to be.
Have any other men here ever gave their wives or girlfriends passionate hugs and kisses, then when they were so into them enjoying themselves you simply stopped, smiled at them and left them alone? I have and it has produced the most intense sex sessions ever, usually initiated by her. Have you had similar results? Ladies you to can chime in and share your experiences as well.
Cooking dinner, he has come up to me without saying a word, gently pushed my hair to one side, kissed my neck in that certain spot and then as I'm turning around to face him and going weak at the knees, he's just given me a cheeky smile and walked away. Hot damn.
I tried this on Sat. morning. We were going through junk in the basement where it was close quarters (ever seen that show hoarders?). I needed to climb over her to set something down. I sat in her lap and kissed her. She indicated she liked that and we went back to sorting. She is off today so Sunday night had an opportunity to act on what I started Sat. morning. I asked her Sunday night but she declined.
Have any other men here ever gave their wives or girlfriends passionate hugs and kisses, then when they were so into them enjoying themselves you simply stopped, smiled at them and left them alone? I have and it has produced the most intense sex sessions ever, usually initiated by her. Have you had similar results? Ladies you to can chime in and share your experiences as well.
Haha, you have discovered one of the secrets to pleasing most women. The longer you draw it out, the better the results. Sometimes my husband teases me for days just so that he gets the result he wants, which is usually me getting on top of him and completely taking control, even holding down his arms.
He is much stronger than I am, but he still lets me pretend I am holding him down LOL.
Sometime, I'm high in the day but by wife is not. So I'll tell her, let me penetrate her and release, but she's not allow to O. Since she's not high (or in the mood,.... she thinks....), she'll allow me.
But after that, she'll confess to me, she's horny for the entire day. And of course, when nigh falls, we have our "second course", this time she's THE tiger while I the lamb (WOT).