chiron635

Hi,
I have long expressed my preference for my wife to shave her kitty. I love the look and feel of it for many reasons, however she has refused to go bald since day 1 (citing a few generic reasons).

Recently, she suggested that this was perverted, especially as we have 2 daughters (10 & 6), and thought it inappropriate for me to want her kitty to resemble that of a young girl. Rest assured, this is not a motive, and her comment has started to turn me off of the notion ever since.

Is my preference reasonable given all factors, or should I reconsider my stance?

lamaga

Her private parts, her choice.

chiron635

Agreed 100% - her parts, her choice.

My concern is that she is perceiving my preference as perverse given her comparison to the body of a young girl. That in itself made me uncomfortable.

lamaga

Well, it's none of my business, but I agree with her. I think this recent craze for shaving/Brazilians directly ties into the increasing sexualization of young girls. I'm disturbed by men who don't want women to look like adult women.

But I'm guessing that's not what you wanted to hear, so I'll back off and let you get other comments.

DanF

My wife shaves completely and I love it. Not because i think it makes her look prepubescent, but because I love to look at it and I hate getting hair in my mouth.
If she just trimmed, it would be fine with me. What I'd really like is a runway, but she says that's more work than just shaving it all and I'm fine with that.
What I don't like is a wookie looking back at me when I go south.
I trim because that's what she likes for the same reasons as me.

blueskies30

My Husband likes for me to shave, but not to shave everything. I leave a little patch up top and trim it so it's not too long. I never shave in front of my kids so I don't see where the inappropriate because of having daughters comes from.

My husband loves the smooth feel and the look.

Maybe have your wife join a gym for swimming and fun work outs. I've noticed that it seems like most women shave.
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okeydokie

last time i saw my wifes i heard a tiger growling

happylovingwife

I am too shy to go get waxed. I shave the undercarriage and very short trim on the front (gets itchy in the front but not underneath for some reason).

I remember when I first saw a tuft of pubic hair on my body in the shower....I cried my eyes out. I thought it was so ugly. I've been shaving it off ever since.

lamaga

Yes, because men like the above call adult women "wookies".

Good God in Heaven. Adult women are ashamed of what adult women look like. Anyone think this is nuts?

honeysuckle rose

I am in agreement on this. Reboot.
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happylovingwife

LoL. I'm not ashamed. When I was pregnant, I stopped caring. It became a serious wookie for awhile. hahah

I was ashamed as a teen, but I was still a child.

effess

Adult women have hair growing on their armpits and legs too but i would bet u shave those?
I despise when people put down pubic grooming and use reasons like thats how God intended us to look or that's how a real woman/man should look. its a personal preference that people use these porous arguments to defend it.

lamaga

Effess, do you wax your balls?

If not, why not?

effess

No wax but i shave them.

My argument isnt that all women should get Brazilians - its the argument that a natural full bush is how it 'should' look and anyone who want the clean shaven look secretly or subconsciously wants a little girl. to say that is horribly insulting and judgmental.

happylovingwife

I'll give you a concrete argument: in certain areas, for some women, it ITCHES like hell. Go try it. Shave all around there and see how you feel the next day. Waxing? Hurts like hell. Either way it's the woman's preference.