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Old 06-15-2012, 06:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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My husband is leaving to work out of state tomorrow morning. We will be apart for a while. So I need to go buy a new toy. I think I might go tomorrow to the mall to stop by Spencer's to get something until I csn go to a adult store.

My Husband threw away my favorite toy a couple weeks ago. It was on its last what ever you want to call it. He threw it away after he found it while packing our house up and using the vibrator on me. My Husband can be non- traditional!! I told him I'd like him to use toys on me again!!
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:09 PM   #2 (permalink)
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and he isn't down with that idea, apparently. why?
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:22 PM   #3 (permalink)
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He noticed it wasn't working right so that's why he threw it away. Apparently he had enough planning time before he called me into the bathroom to change the batteries and it was still not working right. It was still my favorite.

While he's gone I'm going to go buy a new toy. Tomorrow I'll have the kids with me so I can't go to an adult store, so I may opt to take a trip to the mall and go to Spencer's. They have a selection of toys there and I can keep the kids at bay looking at something else while I'm near by...strollers work great.
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Spencers has a pretty cruddy selection. You would do much better going to drugstore.com or amazon.com Search for "water dancer" on drugstore or amazon, you can usually find one for less than $15, they take 1 AA battery, are discreet, powerful, and simple. My wife loves the water dancer, it is her fav, even though we own a bunch of high end ones from Lelo (GiGi, Luna Beads, a few others). Amazon carries Lelo for good prices too.
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Try Adam and Eve online. They have everything.
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Old 06-16-2012, 06:21 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Problem right now is that I don't have a lot of money and just need something to get me by.
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Problem right now is that I don't have a lot of money and just need something to get me by.
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If you're looking for mostly clitoral stimulation, I second the water dancer suggestion. It's cheap and uses just the single AA battery. It's tiny, so easy to hide. It's waterproof, so can be used in the shower or tub. I think you said you'd be living with in-laws temporarily, so these might be things to consider. It's pretty powerful for such a tiny vibe, though, and there's no adjusting the level...it's either off or on. Well, when the battery starts dying, the vibration gets weaker, but that's about the only way. You could buy it on amazon and add something else that you need anyway for a few extra bucks and get free shipping.

Mine broke after about 7 months, but that's actually above average for me and your mileage may vary
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Old 06-16-2012, 10:23 AM   #9 (permalink)
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3 words: Hitachi Magic Wand.

Can buy them on amazon.com, newegg, and others.
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If you are living with inlaws get something that looks like a massager and say you are having a lot of back problems just in case they hear it.
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Definitely go with the Hitachi Magic Wand. My wife swears by it and has done so for 10 years now.

She travels fairly regularly for business and brings it with her on every trip. We call it her "travel companion" and she is sure to have at least one "date" with it each work trip.
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Clone a willy. Basically it turns your husbands exact penis into a vibrator or dildo. Good for phone sex because he knows you can feel him, stroke him, or even oral if you like the taste of rubber. Either way, that or the wand. You're set.
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My GF likes the WeVibe Tango. Nice and small, quiet. Not cheap though. And it won't give you a "penetrated" feeling. So maybe a good rabbit type would be better.

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Spencers has a pretty cruddy selection. You would do much better going to drugstore.com or amazon.com Search for "water dancer" on drugstore or amazon, you can usually find one for less than $15, they take 1 AA battery, are discreet, powerful, and simple. My wife loves the water dancer, it is her fav, even though we own a bunch of high end ones from Lelo (GiGi, Luna Beads, a few others). Amazon carries Lelo for good prices too.
I always go to Amazon myself. Huge selection, cheap, and discreet. :P

As a bonus you find crazy things too....go to amazon and search for "Clone a willy"
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Clone a willy.
LOL, Ari. We bought that. Alas, every time he is erect enough for us to start the procedure, we get distracted
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