Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
Well, some of us are definitely lusty! I cannot say "as much as men" because I've never been a man. I do think we (women) can turn it off and on a lot more easily, and that's it not quite as much of a biological urge -- more like a choice?
A lotta women feel the same. Y'know those chicks you call "hoes"...they love sex. Ha, but us married ladies do too. I think about sex all the time and I watch porn. *shrug*
Neither of us watches porn. We both like sex...a LOT. He's just having some problems right now, which affect it. So, yea, women think about sex too. It isn't just a "guy thing"
If you are talking generalities, then generally, yes, the average man will have a stronger drive for sex than the average woman. The average male's hormonal ****tail includes a really large dose of testosterone (roughly 10 times the amount in the average female), so physically the average man starts out with a headstart in that department. However, it's estimated that around 20% of males have lower drives for whatever reason.
The average woman's drive is often more complex - affected by many variables...but what she may lack physiologically, can often be made up by the state of her mind.
That said ... individuals vary greatly ... some women want it just as much or more than a man, some men want it less than a woman ... even the SAME individual can vary greatly over their lifetime, bouncing back and forth between wanting more, wanting less.
Well, some of us are definitely lusty! I cannot say "as much as men" because I've never been a man. I do think we (women) can turn it off and on a lot more easily, and that's it not quite as much of a biological urge -- more like a choice?
I dunno, gals, what do the rest of you think?
lamaga: I disagree with you, it's hard to turn it on just so(without help from H anyway). And when it's turned on, then it turns into a biological urge that won't go away in days.
I don't think the urges differ much, only that women need another kind of and more prelude.