Originally Posted by notsocool
Thanks for the interesting replies and the humourous one
I suppose I just feel sad that although performance and satisfaction for him is still intense, his awareness of being sexual has diminished.
Maybe I'm afraid it will happen to me too. Posted via Mobile Device
This is quite an old post and I hope I can still answer to this question.
My wife and I agree that sex has to be nurtured to become a part of our life. We make it a point to share something sensual that we believe will lead us to sexual intercourse later.
Examples like (for her) choosing a tight fitting pants to flaunt her asset (yes, THE ASS-et
), direct me to look at another sexy woman when we went shopping, knowing I'll only see her nakedness, (for me) toughing her on areas she like being touched, kissing, etc.
Sometime we failed to have sex, but most of the time, we try to have it daily.
Yes, nurture your relationship with your husband. Nurture your intimacies. Talk it out. Make know and make pact to do something each day to stimulate each other. Your tools will become sensitive again through frequent use.