Re: Wife May Let Me Tie Her Up. Advice Please!!!
Neck Ties. Try hands only first few times, above her head, but loose enough for her to bail if need be.
Go slow, no spanking or rough stuff first few times out.
Make it a sensory delight for her.
Rabbit fur glove (car wash)
A few drips here and there of Hershey's Chocolate syrup, followed by a lick clean.
An ice cube applied lightly to some sensitive areas.
Just go slow, very slow, let her tell you when to move on.
Then the second time out try an IPod with some soft tunes and a soft blindfold to take a couple of her non-touch senses out of the picture.
The first question should always be, "If it's that bad, why are you still there?
OK, you screwed up, it happens. Now apologize. But apologize just once. Make it loud, clear, short, to the point, and directly to those you trespassed against. Then move on.