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Originally Posted by diwali123 Anyone experience it? I have a few times with previous partners and once with my husband. Then again last night u kept going and he got erect again. I tried to get him to o again but he said he couldn't feel anything and it wasn't going to happen. I told him I didn't want him to have blue balls and he said that wasn't going to happen.
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"Blue balls" is a result of excessive semen build up. It can happen when not having any ejaculation after a period of time. I've experienced it (usually about 5 days after no ejaculation). It is not pleasant. It feels like I got a nice little rap in the left testicle (why always the left one, I don't know). And it will throb and feel pretty unpleasant (so much so it is really bothersome)...but not debilitatingly painful.
I know some men can experience it when they come close to orgasm, but do not finish. For me, that scenario just leaves me very horny for an extended period of time until I'm able to relieve myself. No pain involved however.
If he has already ejaculated once, then I believe there is no threat of "blue balls" because he has "started" and not "finished" again. "Blue balls" seems to be from an excess of semen build up. It will absorb back into the body (just as it does with guys who've been "fixed" and had a vasectomy). That was one of the reasons I did not want to go through with a vasectomy. I did not want the recurring "blue balls ache". It sucks, but again is not any great deblilitaing condition either.
I would love to be able to have mulitples. Not possible for me. I ejaculate just before I feel the orgasm. My W was kind of astonished that I could ejaculate quite a good amount of semen, but would not have the orgasm experience until just after that. I still ejaculate some during the orgasm, but if things go slow enough, the majority of it is before the feeling of orgasm. Just the way I'm built I guess.