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View Poll Results: How many times a week would you prefer sex?
Female: in my marriage i was content with 2-3 times a week. but in my current relationship I seem to want it every single day lol there's something about this man that gets me going:-) The longest we've ever gone was 3 days bc we were both really sick with the flu. we have been together for a year.
in previous relationships,the sex died down after the first 6 months.
Female...high drive. Twice a day, morning and night would make me perfectly content. Oral would be a nice addition but my hubby objects to that, so I only get that in my dreams. On average we have sex once a week...twice if its a good week. My vibrator gets a lot of use.
Ideally, would like sex once a week, receive oral once a week, give oral once a week.
Until recently, it was changeable- sex either once or twice a month, receive oral maybe twice a month, give oral about once every 6 weeks to 2 months. But, now that we are 'trying' again, it is going to be sex about 3 times a week- quite a change!
Female.
Fortunate enough to have it as often as I prefer, which is everyday except when 'life' gets in the way.
No, oral doesn't count, we both enjoy it but it's not the main game for either of us. Posted via Mobile Device
Female.
Everyday, sometimes twice.
We average about 15-16x/week, which is about two times more than I'd like, but hey, I am NOT complaining. Just sometimes I'd like to sleep another 15 minutes.
Female...high drive. Twice a day, morning and night would make me perfectly content. Oral would be a nice addition but my hubby objects to that, so I only get that in my dreams. On average we have sex once a week...twice if its a good week. My vibrator gets a lot of use.
Same here for me, except in the mornings neither of us orgasm. We spend 20 minutes oral and sex, but we will end up hugging and talking.... and wait for the night to get sweaty and rough.
We have been doing this for close to a year.
Scheduling and making sex a part of our daily life has helped us. It's not a matter of one of us waiting on making a move and being disappointed, we both know we will spend time together and then go to bed together (which also changed for us, as we used to go to bed seperate -- one of my many changes).
Oral counts for me! I say atleast 5 times a week, but something passionate or kinda dirty everyday. Posted via Mobile Device
Oral, like the use of a vibrator or any type of masturbation, serves as a sort of foreplay. All of it makes me sexually frustrated if I don't actually get to have real, live sex with a man (full intercourse, any position)!
Same here for me, except in the mornings neither of us orgasm. We spend 20 minutes oral and sex, but we will end up hugging and talking.... and wait for the night to get sweaty and rough.
We have been doing this for close to a year.
Scheduling and making sex a part of our daily life has helped us. It's not a matter of one of us waiting on making a move and being disappointed, we both know we will spend time together and then go to bed together (which also changed for us, as we used to go to bed seperate -- one of my many changes).
This is what we're doing; I like it and it's really helping. Sex is top priority (#1 emo need) for me and my husband is finally doing something about it instead of selfishly using porn as his # 1 need, leaving me out in the cold. I guess we're on week 3 now, getting along much better than before, and we're both happy. I plan on keeping this going forever, if we can!
Male. High drive [ sometimes] let me explain.
Sometimes we have it every single day and multiple times on the weekends.
Then other times its just about twice per week. Depends on workload,stress etc.
High stress = Plenty Sex . Heavy ,[Spanking just kidding!] hard [ sometimes a bit rough ] sex.
Low Stress = Less Sex...[ Passionate sex. ] Hugging , Kissing , Massages , Groping, etc,etc.
With her,she is also high drive,anytime ,anywhere .
Just the idea of sex turns her on.
This is what we're doing; I like it and it's really helping. Sex is top priority (#1 emo need) for me and my husband is finally doing something about it instead of selfishly using porn as his # 1 need, leaving me out in the cold. I guess we're on week 3 now, getting along much better than before, and we're both happy. I plan on keeping this going forever, if we can!
That's awesome. It works, but I suppose it can kill the whole "spontaneous" thing. But for us, the spontaneous thing became more of, "If I kiss him, he will want me and I don't feel like it....... so I just won't kiss him EVER." It hurt my feelings more than it was ever "fun". I like to just know, me and my wife will be together, the same as we will take a shower or eat. It's part of our life, it's part of us being healthy and keeping our relationship healthy.
Same here for me, except in the mornings neither of us orgasm. We spend 20 minutes oral and sex, but we will end up hugging and talking.... and wait for the night to get sweaty and rough.
We have been doing this for close to a year.
Scheduling and making sex a part of our daily life has helped us. It's not a matter of one of us waiting on making a move and being disappointed, we both know we will spend time together and then go to bed together (which also changed for us, as we used to go to bed seperate -- one of my many changes).
I envy Mrs. Aristotle...sadly I've kind of given up trying.
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Perfect sex life. How many times a week? 
just kidding!] hard [ sometimes a bit rough ] sex.
